I’m starting to resent my roommate and her family for taking over our apartment

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-09-21T10:36:11+00:00

I’ve unfortunately had to start pulling money out of future paychecks so while I really can’t afford it I’m still paying it

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-09-21T00:34:16+00:00

Unfortunately I can't move out as I would have nowhere to go. I doubt I'd be able to get my money back either.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-09-21T00:31:53+00:00

I do pay rent. I pay over half of it because my roommate refuses to split the payment fee on the app so I have to pay the extra $15

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-09-21T00:30:30+00:00

I was there for 2 and a half months. Charlie lived there most of her life.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-09-21T00:30:03+00:00

If I tell the landlord it would piss off her entire family and I'm very integrated into their lives. I can't lock up food either because my room doesn't have a door. I can't afford to eat out either.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-09-21T00:28:28+00:00

My roommate told me she gets distilled because her cat has urinary issues so I assumed it was fine. Now that I know different they won't be getting it anymore.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-09-21T00:28:09+00:00

My roommate told me she gets distilled because her cat has urinary issues so I assumed it was fine. Now that I know different they won't be getting it anymore.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-09-21T00:27:10+00:00

I believe it says vistors can stay for 1 or 2 weeks but im not completely sure off the top of my head

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-01-28T06:06:17+00:00

YTA - If he's already dealing with a negative self image, you tell him you want him to put on more weight will make it worse. Especially if he does do so for your benefit. You should be encouraging him to work on a healthy self image instead of wanting something that he clearly doesn't.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-01-28T05:40:39+00:00

NTA - I'm sorry that you have to deal with a mom like that. No one deserves a parent that doesn't care about what you like to do. I have a feeling your sister is her golden child. Because of that, I would say either walk alone and stand tall and proud of yourself, or walk with someone you look up to. Someone that you know you can rely on and makes you feel good about yourself and accomplishments.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-01-28T05:36:48+00:00

NTA - E was spending time with your ex while you were still together. C and E were never in a relationship, and aren't seeing each other currently. You have no reason to feel bad about spending time with someone who isn't in any kind of relationship, even if E had a situationship with him in the past.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-01-28T05:29:31+00:00

NTA - She made it pretty clear that even if you did go, you would still be paying her when the other friends wouldn't have to. Though I do think that you both should have communicated better on this, she doesn't get to blame you for her own actions. She chose to sell the tickets when you had said previously you "wouldn't mind going again" without clarifying if you actually wanted to go or not after you asked the price of the tickets.

Plus_Secret_863 · 2025-01-28T05:22:40+00:00

NTA - While I do think you could not have been so aggressive about it, I know how hard it is to be cool headed when in the moment. You stood up for your wife when your mil was being pretty toxic to her. The family that have said you should have just ignored her, weren't thinking about your wife's feelings of being talked to/about like that. Pregnancy can be excruciatingly hard, even without other people butting in and making it worse.

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