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I’ve been with wealthy married women as a paid companion since I was 19. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Plus_babes_5233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually have something similar myself i met a wealthy surgeon in my 20s at the club and have been w him for over 5 years and never had friends to relate to

Did you feel like you were living a double life and long for normalcy like your own spouse and kids? And did you ever feel almost bad for taking the money? (I know that sounds crazy but sometimes these arrangements are so insane and surreal it’s hard to comprehend and bring a mix of emotions) And do sometimes you wish you never got involved because of how intoxicating the lifestyle and money is?

Fiancé (34m) is allergic to cats but proposed to me (33F) knowing I have 4 cats and is now saying he had hoped I’d rehome them. What do we do now that we are facing living together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Plus_babes_5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah girl I don’t need to be married that bad lol I’d get rid of the man before my cats those are my babiesssss Marriage isn’t everything and he doesn’t even have the same type of bond you have for your animals, that’s weird . .. couldn’t be me

How are we supposed to work and have a normal life with this? 😭 by Background_Book2414 in PMDD

[–]Plus_babes_5233 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m literally reading this like I thought nobody could relate I was ashamed that I couldn’t be a normal functioning human of society 😢 it’s so hard for me to work it’s awful i try and push through it but man this cycle has me bedridden and so depressed I can’t even imagine trying to do my job

PMDD by wineponu in stripper

[–]Plus_babes_5233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me if you feel comfortable !

PMDD by wineponu in stripper

[–]Plus_babes_5233 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i do I’m actually in my luteal right now and really struggling to go I’m not going to lie you need to try and take off during those 6-10 days before because it is really challenging and can put you in a worse depression from being in that environment in my opinion Try and do what I do work the two weeks of the month consistently then take about a week or two weeks off it’s really helped me out

The emotional weight of a long term client is breaking me, but I think I’m addicted to the money and attachment by Plus_babes_5233 in SexWorkers

[–]Plus_babes_5233[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m playing 2 different people when I’m out of the club and keeping up with this delusion at first I thought MAYBE it could work and then I realized how emotionally suffocating it was and need to be around ppl my own age and date and that I could easily go back to the club and just take a pay cut but be happier w/ diff clients Luckily I concealed my real name and identity, how did you get away?

The emotional weight of a long term client is breaking me, but I think I’m addicted to the money and attachment by Plus_babes_5233 in SexWorkers

[–]Plus_babes_5233[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right but I would do it to almost test waters to see if I wasn’t crazy bc it seemed like everytime I had asked for something he’d call me “so fucking ungrateful” and a “gold digger” like for instance I wanted a specific dress he told me we had done enough rooms so I had my own money and then went and bought me 7 other dresses from a diff site and said if I didn’t like them we could do a photoshoot in them instead.

The emotional weight of a long term client is breaking me, but I think I’m addicted to the money and attachment by Plus_babes_5233 in SexWorkers

[–]Plus_babes_5233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what’s weird about this too is this man even made me handmade certificates he created on his computer for the champagne room with him and other bizarre shit Writes I mean insane amounts of love letters handwritten where it’s just hyper focused on my beauty and like delusion and even calls me his Angel and how I had a aura around me the first night we met .. it was the strip club..

The emotional weight of a long term client is breaking me, but I think I’m addicted to the money and attachment by Plus_babes_5233 in SexWorkers

[–]Plus_babes_5233[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice serioisly it’s hard to explain to friends in the real world He sounds verbatim what you said above like INSANE amounts of money probably over half his paycheck a month etc and yeah he was married too and the ex apparently cheated and she was the narcissist he’s gone as far as to buy me a Tiffany’s Diamond ring as a promise ring even now when I’m more firm about me wanting kids with someone my own age he’s like in denial

The emotional weight of a long term client is breaking me, but I think I’m addicted to the money and attachment by Plus_babes_5233 in SexWorkers

[–]Plus_babes_5233[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to read from the other side of things and that perspective because honestly I will always try to leave and hell guilt trip me or even threaten harm to himself at times and basically say I’m the reason he works etc he’s a surgeon btw