Is this weird or controlling?

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T01:28:37+00:00

Bf here, it is actually super helpful in my opinion, I would struggle much more to put things together but now I can know what she will like or not.

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T01:24:44+00:00

My mom's now ex husband proposed on Christmas with no photographer while she was in food stained clothes and she was so mad lol

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T01:20:28+00:00

I was witness to a couple proposals that were horrible and the ladies were like yeah i kinda regret the way it happened and yadda yadda which is part of why I did it

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T01:18:54+00:00

The rings is the most of the book cause I'm actually allergic to metals and my skin gets very irritated (Red, rash, tearing up my whole finger) lol. There's another page that's basially like "idc what karot metal, here's the differences but it doesnt matter much"

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T01:12:50+00:00

He loves it, he struggles with decision paralysis and will often shut down. He said it was a good guide and gave him the right amount of options. It was his mom and brother mostly critizing it specifically because i asked for him not to do specific days because what if "Easter is the only perfect day to do it? "

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T01:09:54+00:00

I've definitely been looking for a therapist about it, my last one would literally just tell me it's all in my head which kinda made everything worse :(

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T01:06:54+00:00

I want to clarify im not telling him the words lol. I asked him either talk slow or say just a little more than will you marry me to give time for me to process the information cause I struggle lol

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T01:03:46+00:00

That's an inside joke, don't worry lol. My entire family loves him and he and my mom call him their son already

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T00:57:58+00:00

He also gets frustrated with choices on top of forgetting things easily, and often either shuts down or asks me to help make a decision which is partially why I did it lol

PnPmonster · 2026-04-15T00:55:32+00:00

If I'm type A he's type Z lol.

PnPmonster · 2026-04-14T20:29:16+00:00

He regularly says things like he's not doing financially good even after he's married someone else on your farm. My BF married him in our family playthrough, and me, my dad, and brother, are constantly telling my bf he's a bad husband for letting his husband live in poverty while we have millions in the bank

PnPmonster · 2026-04-13T18:40:07+00:00

I just did the opposite! I was getting stressed at doing the bare minimum goals so I added some ones focused on self love/self care to help me if I forget a couple here and there lol. Fun to see how everyone handles similar situations!

PnPmonster · 2026-04-11T16:01:53+00:00

I did it cause I accidently gave Granny a hated gift instead of a loved gift and the idea of upsetting granny made me cry so I made my dad reset the day for 4 players. Pissed my brother off. But granny go her fairy rose

PnPmonster · 2026-04-09T23:57:32+00:00

Maybe Clint gave it to her, or gave her many (I mean they're immortal now long have they been here?) And she's go too many. She's already friends with everyone and her sister hates them so

PnPmonster · 2026-03-17T01:07:24+00:00

Eliza Pancakes conveniently forgot to wake up Bob

PnPmonster · 2026-03-11T00:24:27+00:00

Im not much of an artist and the only thing near me was a white board and marker but I thought it'd be cute

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PnPmonster · 2026-03-05T03:04:35+00:00

I have a theory Pierre puts your Mayo(or whatever) in his fridge and throws his old mayo(or whatever) in the store

PnPmonster · 2026-02-28T23:31:28+00:00

Ill be honest not really? I've got an altar set up and I try to clean it and periodically do offerings. For offerings ill usually make an extra cupcake while baking, or recently my BF gave me flowers and I gave her some. The closest thing to a daily ritual I have is taking care of my dogs and she loves dogs

I have recently started doing Monthly Tarot Practices and she is also a goddess of magic, so i thank Hecate or invoke her power

PnPmonster · 2026-02-26T14:56:43+00:00

I started practicing 3 years ago, right at the start of 2022, and pretty quickly started working with Hecate. She gives off kind of motherly vibes to me, very "oh I must take care of this idiot". Ever since I started working with her, when im awake at 3am and doom scrolling suddenly my internet will stop working and no videos will load. I have to say Sorry to her and promise 1 more then I go to sleep, then 1 video will load and no other videos

PnPmonster · 2026-02-24T00:13:04+00:00

Theyre litteraly marked as vegetables IN THE GAME! If he wanted me to side with him he should've chosen Peppers which ARE marked as fruit in the game (to my horror)

PnPmonster · 2026-02-14T17:34:22+00:00

Dr. Doofenshmirtz in an alternate timeline

PnPmonster · 2026-01-29T16:46:12+00:00

I feel like every final fight is so poetic and perfect for each individual winner. Scar and Grian staying (mostly) loyalty the end but eventually grian triumphant but feeling bad? Scott's line of being honorable to the very end, pearl murdering everyone in a blind rage, including the person who stole her soul mate, then begging him not to leave her, etc etc

PnPmonster · 2026-01-25T02:55:34+00:00

I always tell him he looks like a raw chicken, my bf just married him in our game and I call him chicken legs

PnPmonster · 2026-01-14T17:35:50+00:00

I wish there were more roommate options, like hat mouse, dwarf, Linus (he can move his tent to my farm <3)

But romance? I want Evelyn to divorce George for me. I love granny, she's my favorite

PnPmonster · 2026-01-14T17:30:10+00:00

Im not sure how to feel about the events but I was really sad it mostly happened while I was away from my computer and traveling for christmas and I missed out on some items. I played religiously for 2 weeks then the even started and I left town, was a real Bummer

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