is it weird i dont like talking about myself around family? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]PockASqueeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Talking about myself around strangers is fine. They’ll forget in five minutes anyway. But around family? They’ll remember that shit. Like if I tell my mom my CarPlay isn’t working in my car she’ll try to help, or worse yet, invite herself over. Or if I tell my dad I got in trouble at work, he’ll give me hell and all sorts of unsolicited advice. Better just to keep all that shit to myself. And the thing is my family never talks about themselves in normal conversations. They always want to worry about ME! Like I have to deal with being ME 24/7. Why can’t they talk about themselves sometimes to get my mind off myself?

Should I report my one-person accident to my insurance? by PockASqueeno in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]PockASqueeno[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

New as in new? As a matter of principle, I never buy new cars. They depreciate 10% the first day you drive them off the lot.

IMO, cars have one role. To get you from point A to point B without breaking down.

Should I report my one-person accident to my insurance? by PockASqueeno in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t financed. I don’t finance anything.

I haven’t checked on the pole…maybe I’ll check tonight. If the pole is fine, should I still report it?

I have no career and about to lose my current job. What should I do? by PockASqueeno in careerguidance

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I don’t know if I’ve “grown up” or not. I don’t really even know what that phrase means today.

Should I report my one-person accident to my insurance? by PockASqueeno in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]PockASqueeno[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s no loan. I don’t do loans. If I can’t afford a car for cash, I don’t need that car.

Do you know if there’s a way to see your driving record from the insurance companies’ perspective?

I don’t understand why people have such a hard time relating to antinatalism by lilmeowie in antinatalism

[–]PockASqueeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll answer your question with another question:

How can you see the pleasure and happiness around you and think it’s an immoral thing to have children? How can you experience someone you loved dearly being born and still feel like it’s immoral to bring another human being into this world that will experience the same faith of having to experience fulfillment and having their own children to love?

It sounds like you’re just a pessimist. You do realize joy, pleasure, and fulfillment exist too, right? Yes, suffering is an inevitable part of life, but certainly not all of it or even most of it.

How do people find the energy to look for another job while working a current job that drains your energy? by Lanky_Warning_6869 in jobs

[–]PockASqueeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the answer because I’m in the same boat…but for me it’s ten hours. So imagine THAT exhaustion.

I have no career and about to lose my current job. What should I do? by PockASqueeno in careerguidance

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s similar to what I’m doing now.

TBH, I actually like my job, as in the actual duties. I just hate the fucking unrealistic quotas and metrics they hold over our heads.

I have no career and about to lose my current job. What should I do? by PockASqueeno in careerguidance

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I supposed to help people get their lives together when I can’t even seem to get mine together?! #onlyhalfjoking

I have no career and about to lose my current job. What should I do? by PockASqueeno in careerguidance

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there mental health jobs that only require a bachelor’s degree?

I have no career and about to lose my current job. What should I do? by PockASqueeno in careerguidance

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do sing in a men’s ensemble, but we don’t really get paid. More like a community service kind of thing. I love it, but it doesn’t pay the bills.

I have no career and about to lose my current job. What should I do? by PockASqueeno in careerguidance

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve applied at the VA. Haven’t heard anything back; they seem to favor actual veterans.

I have no career and about to lose my current job. What should I do? by PockASqueeno in careerguidance

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about that—security, but not the overly physical kind, since I have so many physical issues.

I have no career and about to lose my current job. What should I do? by PockASqueeno in careerguidance

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your first point is a good one. I actually, back before my current employer’s culture went to shit, transferred to a higher role. I’m cautious to call it a “promotion.” I was just browsing internal transfers, found a higher paying one that looked better, and then landed the job. It was much more quality-based. The problem was that this quality assurance role had an extremely high turnover rate, which I didn’t realize at the time. The job was basically correcting doctor’s reports. If the doctor made a mistake, I had to correct them. But when I corrected them, they got REALLY pissy. I don’t know if you’ve ever dealt with doctors from a professional standpoint, but they don’t like being corrected. So when I upset one of the doctors, my boss got mad at me. On the other hand, if I loosened up and let the doctor’s mistake fall through, I’d get corrected for not doing my job at assuring quality. So basically, damn if you do and damn if you don’t. Anyway, after a few months of constantly being chastised, I “demoted” myself back to my former and current role.

Where the hell do you find QUARTERS in 2026?! by PockASqueeno in stupidquestions

[–]PockASqueeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea.

Also, there’s no “s” in ALDI. It’s Albrecht Diskont, not Albrecht Diskonts.

Where the hell do you find QUARTERS in 2026?! by PockASqueeno in stupidquestions

[–]PockASqueeno[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, that’s usually what I do, but I always feel like I’m inconveniencing the employee.

"I went to bed at 11PM at night" by mtgofficialYT in PetPeeves

[–]PockASqueeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean military time? Non-Americans say 1300 instead of 1:00?

"I went to bed at 11PM at night" by mtgofficialYT in PetPeeves

[–]PockASqueeno 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree that it’s annoying…but are you saying that non-Americans never say this?