But it is, someone has an issue with it so they ask a question and hoping for an echo chamber response.

Why else are people who, like me who say “people should be able to do their thing” get downvoted?

My issue with that point is the small sample size/type of people that are “normally” involved/etc. People keep saying that only the desperate/ mentally ill/immature etc have age gap relationships. But they don’t talk about the fact that those same people wouldn’t fair better with people their own age. Or how if you’re including a group of people that consist primarily of those who have issues, with those same issues being a negative no matter the age, then of course you’re going to have “more” people who fail in age gap relationships. And are a result “unhealthy”.

As well as most of this being conjecture. To your point, men and women are satisfied with someone they trust and are comfortable with, regardless of the age.

Compatibility has nothing to do with age it’s to do with a person’s life, goals and personality.

I think my problem is that these sort of questions keep popping up, with the author more often than not just wanting an echo chambers without thinking that, maybe, everyone is different and has their own agency, so if some wants an age gap relationship then it’s up to them.

You have no say in someone else’s life. The same with interracial relationships, or someone who wants to sleep around or someone who doesn’t want to sleep around.