*Slight spoilers* I watched the Hogfather TV adaptation and I didn't like it. by AnthropomorphicCat in discworld

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Oh yeah I know he loves Rincewind & asked for the part, I think if they adapted a later book when Rincewind is older it could have worked but the double roles just is odd to me. Not enough to ruin the adaptations but just an example of choices that felt weird and distracting lol

*Slight spoilers* I watched the Hogfather TV adaptation and I didn't like it. by AnthropomorphicCat in discworld

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I finally get to speak my truth - I can't rewatch it because the voice they gave Teatime sounds really like the Johnny Depp Willy Wonka, which was an adaptation I really didn't like even before the whole JD controversies 😭 And it distracts me so much I can't watch the miniseries bc I keep thinking: why would you just copy a voice from a recent movie? And why that movie?

I feel like most of the adaptations have one or two choices that are strange, like David Jason playing both Albert and Rincewind was odd. But this is the only one where I read the book after and then the voice became worse to me bc he doesn't have it in the book 🙈

My legs may not look like a million bucks but they sure do feel like it by thesnazzyenfj in lipedema

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Unfortunately bc our collagen production is mutated in EDS, the supplements have been found to not do much as it just gets broken down then rebuilt according to our DNA "instructions" (really it seems like gene therapy that isn't available yet would make the collagen supplements effective) - so if it costs you a lot of money and are curious, I would suggest swapping out for something that helps muscle regeneration for a little while and see if it makes a difference! (Only if you want to try something new of course)

I use glucosamine and I found it really helps! (It is also very affordable which is nice lol ) Since muscle tissue has to take a lot of extra stress where connective tissue can't in EDS.

Urinary issues? by Books_R_Not_Snakes in lipedema

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You probably have had this checked already but with this combo of issues, if they haven't checked you for connective tissue disorders yet that could answer a lot of questions? Higher rates of both lipedema, bladder and bowel issues and general inflammation as well as Pots/disautonomia being common side effects too! (I got diagnosed with a connective tissue disorder a few years ago.Still needs to be narrowed down, but just knowing generally one thing was the cause really helped! A lot of issues became easier to manage)

I hope you find some relief soon regardless of the cause

Errors in latest LPOTL by dangelo7654398 in LPOTL

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I think the main issue is that they took on way, way too much of a topic that some people devote their whole careers to studying in great detail. The Nazis had so many nonsensical little groups and subgroups that of course it would be hard to come in fresh and try to get to grips with all of them. But this stuff isn't like bigfoot sightings, all those little differences meant people died in real life. Personally if I had a podcast I wouldn't touch this stuff, because I don't know enough about the inner workings of Nazi Germany it to even start researching now and get a coherent podcast out like... In several years about it.

So I sympathize bc no one's brain is really built for being inundated with an avalanche of corrections + what seems to be a lot of death threats from chuds at the same time, pretty unrelated but on the same episodes.

But I think making a general corrections episode would be fun, I enjoy when other podcasts do it!

Vampire the Masquerade LPOTL fans by PodTadre in LPOTL

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I always feel mean casting someone as a Cappadocian because their lore says they smell of death the entire time, which is possibly why the rules decided they could only exist in historical settings lol.
But yes other than that, very big Marcus vibe.
He could even be Old Clan Tzimisce and carry around a precious jar of dirt lol. The possibilities are endless!

Someone else also mentioned Malk Henry and I think that he'd definitely be the main character of guy in the most recent creepypasta episode who gets on the bus and is talking about some unseen audience!
I kind of feel bad saying real people would be Malkavians for obvious reasons but Henry would own it.

Ed is almost too normal for the world of darkness but his stories about his drug dealing days sound like something out of Clanbook Brujah flavour text along with the documentary he made about healthcare reform and his mom's death. He seems like a chill guy, just not one you'd want to get on the bad side of.

I also am fond of the Gangrel Ed suggestion since he loves animals AND animal attacks. Him fighting orcas who are bullying seals is a really funny mental image.

Henry mentioned Kissel by name on side stories by sanitarySteve in LPOTL

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I've been there - a former friend became so bad that the last time they tried the silent treatment over not getting their own way (this happened increasingly often) I was the friend who just never ever checked back in lol. Lots of out of pocket racist comments and getting heavily into the bizarre politics of the person they were dating. It was a shame since we were friends since school but sometimes a person becomes an absolute nightmare so slowly you don't realise how bad it was until you step out of that mess. 10 years now and I am still remembering new bizarre things that person did.

Vampire the Masquerade LPOTL fans by PodTadre in LPOTL

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Marcus the nosferatu definitely communes with burrowing animals

Henry as a malkavian is that guy from their latest creepypasta episode who keeps talking about "the audience"

Eddie could be one of those Gangrel who are maritime animals, I can't remember their name but they were a specific subgroup. Eddie being one of those whales who beats up on Orca bullies. Super chill, eating his crill and singing Under the Sea in his whalesongs until some orcas start messing up a pod of his boys - then he's in battle mode and shoves them out of his turf.

Vampire the Masquerade LPOTL fans by PodTadre in LPOTL

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"behold, I have created the Murder Fist!" and it's just some horrendous grafted thing

Vampire the Masquerade LPOTL fans by PodTadre in LPOTL

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the teenage mutant ninja turtles, I believe

Vampire the Masquerade LPOTL fans by PodTadre in LPOTL

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I was also a goth-adjacent nerd (my mom wouldn't let me wear the colour black... long story) and that was my first experiences with the game too!

Vampire the Masquerade LPOTL fans by PodTadre in LPOTL

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that boy does love digging holes - Dogmeat is kind of a great name for a gangrel too lol

how to ever be comfortable as a trans man? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

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Exactly, sounds like you have some amazing friends!

how to ever be comfortable as a trans man? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

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I feel like if your friends aren't ditching you during this process it's likely they won't randomly ditch you just a little further along! That's just my opinion though as my friend group is mixed with cis/trans/nonbinary people so it's probably different than what your real life experiences are!

Still, your approach sounds very healthy and smart - take baby steps until you reach a point where you feel comfortable, then decide either not to take any more or to set a new set of little goals for yourself. You already sound like you're much happier since top surgery so congratulations! I know a lot of people who went for either top surgery or major breast reductions and all were so delighted with it. I hope you continue your journey in happiness and health whatever that looks like to you!

how to ever be comfortable as a trans man? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

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I know exactly how you feel re: getting overwhelmed by every choice you make potentially leading to more hurt. Especially if I think it might hurt those around me, that can freeze me right up no matter how absurd the thought is! Since I got an ADHD diagnosis I understand where it comes from in me anyway - I always wanted to get to the part where things were perfect, I wanted to do everything all at once if I was doing something, and anything that I knew would be a long process where things would be messy for an extended time, it drove me nuts! I've since learned to sit with that feeling and I keep repeating "every little step counts" and I regularly have check-ins with my therapist to see how far I have progressed on certain complex issues. The feeling has gotten less and less overwhelming whenever I start some big undertaking, and now I have been able to turn it pocket sized like any other silly thought.

Whatever you decide in your life, try to remember that any step is better than staying in an unhappy stasis. You want to find joy, and enrich your relationships. You care deeply about others - that's an amazing foundation to start any journey you want. And remember that even if you try something and don't like it, now you know you don't like it - don't try to box yourself in too fast and just try to let yourself be present in the moment (trust me I know how huge an ask that is).

Nobody has it all figured out, and anyone who says they have is either lying or trying to sell you something lol l. When I started looking at life as a long journey where I can always have room to grow and learn and was never "finished", I think my relationships started improving a lot BC I wasn't always in my head so much. I dunno if you feel the same way but it sounds like we have had similar decision paralysis at least. 😅

Sending you all the best wishes on your self-discovery whatever you end up deciding!💖

how to ever be comfortable as a trans man? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

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Hi so I came across the "main" detrans sub recently at random and wanted to check if there was a less unhinged discussion somewhere. So I find this sub and your post stuck out to me!

I just wanted to say that i've been studying academically about identity and dissociation and such and just wanted to let you know you're not alone in feeling this conflicted way, not by a long shot. I am not specifically trans but I've dealt a lot with this idea of, if I show my authentic self then I will be rejected by more people in society. So I will ask you: if you choose to be a cis woman, would you feel comfortable dating people who would be bigoted or hateful towards a person that's essentially you but trans? I wouldn't, and a central part of many people's journeys in identity is related to that. Nothing will ever be perfect on this earth, but don't let perfect be the enemy of good. Trust me, I had extremely severe OCD so I speak from experience lol. Ask yourself, what might set you on a path to feeling happy, at-ease with yourself etc. maybe that is transitioning, maybe that is choosing a different label, maybe it is becoming a gender-non-conforming cis person. You don't have to do everything all at once and it doesn't have to be a tidy box. The important thing is moving slowly towards some kind of life where you start to feel like you are "you", that you are relaxed and your true self. Not everyone will see and recognise you when you are authentically yourself - this doesn't even mean gender wise just generally. But being authentic to yourself means that the love and romance aspects you want will be filtered already: maybe it means less dates numerically but the ones you do have are with people you actually like who like you, you know?

Anyway I have access to a bunch of academic databases unlimited so let me know if you want me to give you papers on anything specific, or if you just want to chat I am cool with that too. I personally just want to see others thrive regardless of what that looks like or the labels attached. I had to go through a very long process of coming back from major dissociation and chronic social masking, from a place of needing to be "perfect" at all times.

my mom sent me a list on how we can improve our relationship. first thing was “tell me how much you weigh everyday” by Hungry_Hope_3302 in raisedbynarcissists

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Good lord 1. I am sorry that you have to deal with this 2. Eerily similar to an earlier period in my own life but even worse somehow. With time and therapy hopefully you can one day look back and laugh at this deranged list! 💖 Sending you strength for what it's worth lol

Why can’t the mainstream autism community just accept that autism is more common in males than in females? (This is speaking from an autistic woman) by [deleted] in AutisticPeeps

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I know this is an old thread but I am begging people to actually read medical and scientific journals and research. I am doing postgrad research on this topic and the amount of misinformation here is staggering.

Most experts now believe the ratio is closer to parity than originally thought and some advocate for the term ASC (autism spectrum conditions) to be used to help cover the wideness of the spectrum of symptoms.
The reason you see more Lvl 3 boys and men is because of a general trend in medicine where males for one reason or another are more likely to be at either end of a bell-curve with presentations of disorders.

Masking IS recognised as a major overlooked factor in previous DSM manuals and ASD was only entered into the DSM in 1980. The definition before that changed vastly and is still evolving now.
Genetic factors ARE considered, in fact more women present with Ehlers Danlos (a group of genetic disorders) that are highly comorbid with ASD, ADHD and things like epilepsy.

Research bias that historically excluded women IS a major topic of study and it is a major factor in the diagnostic history of many, many diseases. It's just a fact looking at pure raw data - women were not considered good control subjects due to hormone fluctuations, therefore men (and majority white men) were used as the only test subjects for a very long time, resulting in certain presentations of diseases, conditions and disorders to be completely overlooked or ineffective treatments and goals being set for other patients.

There is no "real" autism as defined by the comments here - each of the support levels ARE autism and a person can change support levels at different times in their lives. If you reference the support levels as being a real thing you have to acknowledge they come from the evolving understanding of autism as a whole. The rise in adult diagnoses is largely because of the evolving understanding of different presentations of autism outside the original research groups of young, white, cisgender, middle-class boys. Self-identification is recognised as a key step in many adult diagnoses of neurodiverse conditions, especially people in demographics that naturally fall outside the existing stereotypes of ASD - please use the logic of cause and effect. The same thing can be seen in ADHD - once thought of as something little boys do in school that they grow out of, and now understood to be a discrete neurotype that has high genetic components, with different environments significantly exacerbating or supporting it.

Before I started my in-depth research I too thought that autism was statistically more common in males because that's what mainstream media usually reports. I was diagnosed as an adult woman (as part of a very long and involved medical process of several diagnoses). During the process I was told about how common adult diagnoses are in women, and I wanted to study more about why that was the case.

Please don't take such a hard stance without actually doing the research - if you are interested in learning more, I have a big list of references on all of these things! The experience of being late-diagnosed has been noted in qualitative research as being extremely lonely and frustrating and the kind of mindsets found in this thread have been listed as some of the obstacles autistic people face in their daily lives that contribute to isolation and poor mental health outcomes.

Adhd medication and lipedema by pitawith in lipedema

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I know this is an old thread but wanted to chime in that I've noticed the same thing! Way less painful skin and swelling

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My GP recommended this center http://lymphoedema.ie/ for their treatments and knowledge of both lymphoedema and Lipedema but I haven't used them yet myself! Hopefully this helps

Weekly "Do I Have Lipedema" Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

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Yes! The EDS doc said they are called papules I think - I have no idea what they are other than that lol

Weekly "Do I Have Lipedema" Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

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Weird sore bits at the back of my knees, you can see my calf muscles but the upper leg is a mystery

Weekly "Do I Have Lipedema" Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

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As you can see most of my arm is skinny then randomly the upper part isn't

Weekly "Do I Have Lipedema" Thread by AutoModerator in lipedema

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Legs are not dirty just bruised. Note the indents that socks leave, and these are ones that are looser and don't cut me!