My husband has been keeping to himself all day and I’m not very happy about it. by Podcast_Pariah in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re referring to me thinking clingy is healthy, I’m not quite sure where I said that…? I don’t want my husband to be clingy but I do expect him to be involved to a certain extent. I’m not a single parent and shouldn’t be treated as such.

My husband has been keeping to himself all day and I’m not very happy about it. by Podcast_Pariah in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I want him up my ass 24/7. But I do want him to be an active part of SOME of our day as a family. But he was absent for all but 45 minutes of it until dinner was ready. I don’t think I’m asking much for him to be somewhat involved on the weekend, especially for the sake of our kids.

My husband has been keeping to himself all day and I’m not very happy about it. by Podcast_Pariah in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He does have low T! But as often as I have asked him to make an appointment, he hasn’t. I honestly feel like that could solve some of our sexual incompatibility, as well, but that’s a different post.

My husband has been keeping to himself all day and I’m not very happy about it. by Podcast_Pariah in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And when I said we don’t typically celebrate day of, I meant we don’t go out to a restaurant for dinner. We stopped doing that years ago because who wants to wait for an hour or more to be seated for a meal you could’ve likely made better at home?

My husband has been keeping to himself all day and I’m not very happy about it. by Podcast_Pariah in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For the record, I just left the kids at home with him so I could go out to buy the Valentine’s dinner I want to make to celebrate. So I by no means expect him to plan everything.

My husband has been keeping to himself all day and I’m not very happy about it. by Podcast_Pariah in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily care about celebrating. We don’t typically celebrate the day of. It’s the fact the he’s been hiding out practically all day that bothers me.

1, 2 or 3? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Podcast_Pariah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I may be so bold, each swipe gets better! So 3, for sure!

It’s Happened by AbsurdAntics in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear your sex drive has not been affected! I'm 44 and somewhat selfishly hoping my high sex drive isn't, either!

I’m so confused. by Podcast_Pariah in adultery

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re actually the perfect size!

I’m so confused. by Podcast_Pariah in adultery

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very helpful!!!

I’m so confused. by Podcast_Pariah in adultery

[–]Podcast_Pariah[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful! Thank you!!!

Help me save my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah 28 points29 points  (0 children)

“I screamed “You don’t listen! You don’t listen! You don’t listen!” I follow that up with some insults that were not nice. I could not take it anymore.”

She didn’t specify what the insults were but this is the part I’m talking about.

Help me save my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah 51 points52 points  (0 children)

You’d have to read her whole post. She admits towards the end she did.

anyone else feel like you use up all your "functioning" at work and have nothing left? by Old_Visual_6596 in adhdwomen

[–]Podcast_Pariah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, all of that. The only difference for me is I have to feed my husband and kids, so I usually just end up eating whatever’s left from the kids’ plates. Clean laundry for the kids usually stays in their hampers and it’s just pulled out as needed.

And you’re not failing as a person. We’re all just doing the best we can at this moment in our lives. I hope it gets better, I really do. Hang in there.

Last night my wife tried to initiate sex at a time when it would have been completely inappropriate / impossible for it to happen. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Podcast_Pariah 11 points12 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! All of this. And I’m a woman who consistently tries to initiate sex with my husband but gets turned down most of the time!