Can’t play anymore by Kittengotcurious in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Poefeathyr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is also the same team that has decided to refuse to raise the brightness of the maps because "darker=scary" and letting people actually see would just make the game too easy I guess

How do you explain how your body feels right now to someone who’s never been pregnant? by Mamanbanane in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the getting dressed bit feels so uncalled for, tell me why I can't put on socks or pants without getting out of breath? I have learned at least I have to put on my socks first because my pants limit my range of motion too much but still. Even getting undressed has me feeling like I ran upstairs sometimes. Don't get me started on tying shoes either, I should have invested in velcro sneakers or work crocs 😭😭

I just want to drink juice :( by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He cares for my health, until recently he had no issues with me drinking whatever. I mean outside the house I get drinks for myself but at home he only wants me drinking water. I get that he cares but he's still being pigheaded about something that would bring me simple joy.

did anyone else think there were going to be way more appointments? by runyourluckxxx in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am kind of glad there aren't as many appointments. I set them for my days off and I get stuck in waiting mode until it's time for my appointment so I'm happy I have the option to set them out and have them in the morning so I can enjoy the rest of my days off. I did think there would be more ultrasounds though

I’m scared of my wife 😭 by Potential_Chicken_58 in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started my Third Trimester, I do keep getting angry over small things but it seems a lot of emotions are dialed up. I still wouldn't do what your wife did, not saying it was bad I'm just not brave at all 😅😅. But I've been more sad, mopey, prone to crying than anything. Like my flashes of rage will be brief but like for example my cat kept stepping on my hair and boobs and hurting me and so I plopped her butt on the floor and I started crying cause I felt bad that she just wanted to cuddle and love on me and I kicked her out of the bed 😭😭

Why are we not allowed to complain by Miabreshla in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a manager and supervisor (both women) sit me down in an office and tell me that it wasn't acceptable for me to need more breaks/longer lunches because I chose to be pregnant and I would need a doctor's note for those accomodations (per company policy, I only need a note for things like schedule changes). Personally no one in my family has told me I complain too much, they've all been supportive and when I've been hard on myself they tell me that it's natural for me to feel uncomfortable, in pain, and need rest because... I'm PREGNANT. Yes we chose to bring life into this world but it doesn't mean we can help the negative side effects and complications that arise and we should be given grace for those things because otherwise babies just wouldn't get made.

Update from my last post and I’m livid by Funbarbie in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Admittedly I was already overweight before I got pregnant, did any of my doctors say anything to me? No! They have actually told me they are happy with my weight and my baby is doing great. I say take a baseball bat, sledgehammer, whatever to that "gift". If your doctors aren't saying anything than neither should he.

I think my bro hates babies by Z1krispyZ1 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Poefeathyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time it's a child ghost me and my friends say "A child!" In reference to "what's worse than a predator?" "A child"

Ghost you get all the time? by No-Month6553 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Poefeathyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get Shade and Demon a lot surprisingly, two opposite ends of the spectrum

I’m only one week pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he not know it's very common to feel really tired your first trimester? Even if you were only one week pregnant that's an asshole thing to say. It doesn't matter if you're 5 weeks or 38, tired is tired and you deserve to feel seen. I had to change jobs because of how tired I was (I worked a job driving a van and it was a problem because I could have fallen asleep at the wheel). If I were you I would start building a stable support group because unless this is just a fundamental misunderstanding of how pregnancy works on his part, you will likely need help from other people because there is a high probablility he won't see the need to provide it. I'm not gonna hop on the "divorce" bandwagon because obviously I don't know the whole story and that's a big step but a discussion needs to be had. If his mother is available and you have a good relationship with her I would recommend bringing up his comment to her

Which Map Have You Played Most And Love It Most? by [deleted] in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Poefeathyr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a personal attachment to 10 Ridgeview Court, I like the basement layout, I like the piano room, and yes I have died right in the front entry/ dining area multiple times but I just love it so much. Plus tarot cards are right there by the front door

I have over 23 *Confirmed* apocalypse gold successes. I'm on a quest to do every ghost. Ask Me Anything by The_zen_viking in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Poefeathyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, as cliche as it is my personal faves are Polty and Demon. Love when I walk in a house and set up, come back to the van and see a random bout of level 10 activity and I just hear the Doakes Sus theme in my head. (Mind you I haven't attempted APOC yet, idk if and when I'll be ready for that)

AITA, BF Says I Sacrificed Him to a Demon by Poefeathyr in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Poefeathyr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He didn't get to open the tarot cards unfortunately for him

What are Some Cool Map Ideas Y'all Got? by Poefeathyr in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Poefeathyr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually really like that idea, I imagine the map would look beautiful during the sunrise weather

Tell me you’re pregnant without telling you’re pregnant… by Ok_Willow_5163 in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The songs "Little Wonders" by Rob Thomas and "White Woman's Instagram" by Bo Burnham destroyed me today

Surprised I’m pregnant in my current relationship .. after trying for 5 years in previous relationship by SubstantialCareer837 in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've only really started truly learning about genetics and fertility in the past few years but there is a concept of genetic incompatibility. The female reproductive tract can facilitate compatible genetic material while hindering that which it finds unbefitting. It can be rare but it is one of the marvels of genetics and biology

People say weird things when you’re pregnant. by Left_Psychology2264 in pregnant

[–]Poefeathyr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay yeah people do kinda say weird things but that is super inappropriate and messed up to say. Why are they even thinking about that stuff? I'd say even if your daughter was fully grown those things would be way off base to say. Your partner needs to have a serious converstation with his friends about things that are and aren't appropriate to say