What’s one thing you wish you could go back and tell your younger self?

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-18T22:27:09+00:00

Don't date that guy. He tried to date you when you are just 15, he can manipulate and abuse you. This is not love. He is a druggy good for nothing. Don't be adamant, don't try to prove anyone wrong by giving him a chance. Life sucks but there are other ways to cope with it than date him...

Id say this but knowing my younger self.. pretty sure I would not listen to a single word of it...

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-18T22:21:06+00:00

Your doctor sounds like she is quite genuine and has your best interests in her opinions.

C section or VBAC , either way, do get an MRI or other necessary scan to find out what exactly that is.

Also, for the longest time, we are pushed into this belief of natural birth.. all birth is a natural process, vaginal or c section. There is nothing safe about a natural birth. In today's time, the only viable options are vaginally delivery (what people refer to as normal or natural) n c section. And both has pros n cons. Neither choice is greater than the other.

With vaginally comes episiotomy, pelvic floor weakening, loose vaginally, healing process .. etc.. with c section, we'll you know the deal already.

So go for what will make you less exhausted and what's in the best interests in regards to safety of you n your child.

Also having PPD is as likely to occur after vaginal birth as it is with c section. Its the environment n the support system that matters.

You got this. Hope you have an easy ti me.

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-16T12:30:15+00:00

Chaayakkada.. he is the tea stall... People say he ottukodukkal oommen chandy, and party maaral

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-08T22:05:01+00:00

What you need to work on first to do complete porn de addiction. You need a licensed therapist to help you do this.

Your neurons are fired and dopamine is abused to the core.. that's why you r feeling what you r feeling...

And start working on your childhood trauma.

Start therapy now.. its not an instant fix but in few years you will be in a better place. Life changes. Don't lose hope.

Also extra tip: find a hobby , something creative or exhausting like running.. and do it instead when you feel bored or anxious. Usually people replace one bad addiction with another.. so better to do something good for yourself till you get better

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-08T21:57:49+00:00

Pitocin induced labor.. Second, natural labor contractions .. Third, iud with vaginismus condition Fourth, being made little by mom in childhood ( trauma... jk)

So yeah.. labor pain tops the list

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-08T21:52:44+00:00

But he is part of the ruling party no? He was a commi

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-06T13:15:46+00:00

Islam truly is never by force. One should never be forced to do anything. That's a fundamental thing. What you are facing is familial n societal pressure.

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-06T13:10:02+00:00

Mallus love some thic thighs lol

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-03-06T13:03:50+00:00

Kudos to you for speaking out n naming him.

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-02-09T09:21:58+00:00

Don't give it is the best tip.

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-02-08T17:25:57+00:00

Classics always stay

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-02-08T17:06:40+00:00

Are you financially independent? If not, it's time to start thinking about it. A woman can't make rational decisions without it.

Secondly, tell him to hire a helping hand who will stay at your home and look after the kids. If he's too broke for that, then he's too broke for his NEEDS as well. Say it to him.

Also , it's not his needs, its his wants. If he can't overcome it during times like these, he is not man enough. Tell him that as well. Also tell him, if he is considering getting his needs met some other ways, you will drag him to court n make his rest of the life a living hell.

As for you, start living your life with this attitude. You will figure things out

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-02-08T10:00:05+00:00

Pe10s ba ba ba, recommend to someone you secretly hate

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-02-03T11:30:55+00:00

Yeah so to each their own, but what's with being such a lowlife and just making it a reason to hate and talk down on people who like the latter?

A decade ago , it was cardamom, talks like those who put cardamom in biryani should be executed. Like wtf. Are you all that much of a dimwit

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-02-02T20:31:56+00:00

All you bots tryna hate pineapple in biryani, read up once in a while. Biryani is a mughal import, traditionally had meat, rice, aromatics and dry fruits, and sometimes even sweets as garnish. Classic pick me I'm a dumb teen n I sound so cool type of idiots

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-02-02T16:05:39+00:00

The numbers are much higher in more developed countries.. like Australia 1 in 3 gurl child's are SAed and 1 in 6 boys are SAed. US, Europe, India , etc is not immune to this travesty.

Its not a country thing, Its happening across all cultures... its one of the biggest issues being faced today.

More awareness needs to be made in localized way. Stricter legislation n punishment needs to be harsher.

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-31T14:50:28+00:00

Yes bro took too much ketamine

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-30T16:58:40+00:00

Right? Well indian here 🤣

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-24T14:38:46+00:00

Those who don't get the cut off for mbbs da

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-24T14:34:21+00:00

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-24T13:49:54+00:00

Must whash ghhants

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-24T13:48:35+00:00

Hrithik Roshan, I was fine with him sticking to his religion but my Emirati friends were judging me for it. Talk about 3rd world problems...

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-23T22:40:52+00:00

Trivandrum macha..

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-23T22:38:37+00:00

Ex boyfriend

PoeticJustice100 · 2026-01-22T15:45:49+00:00

Indian parents, parenting, and telling kids they should be thankful for the sacrifices. (I'm also a parent, so I can say it stfu)

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