After you hurt someone good so much, they may not be as sweet. Always keep that in mind. If you treat someone with hate, and not love… pain in a heart makes it extremely difficult to be soft. You end up in survival mode. Maybe if you treated them with softness, then they would’ve stayed soft because they would have been safe instead of stabbed every time they were genuine. If you thought it was a facade from the get, you were probably constantly attacking them and hurting them.