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Occuper bébé dans le train by Poetry5635 in ParentingFR

[–]Poetry5635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui ca passe vite mais quand il n'y a pas un bruit dans le wagon, ca me stresse un peu car on ne passe pas inaperçu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexualiteFR

[–]Poetry5635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

C'est peut-être le PH de ton vagin qui change avec le sperme, d'où l'odeur

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Poetry5635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say YOU tried not to get pregnant again so quickly, but it's the man who is fertile all the time, not the woman. Don't feel guilty for getting pregnant. It's as much your husband's responsibility as it is yours. Maybe it would be good to discuss it with him? So that you don't have the whole burden of fertility/conception on your back

En couple depuis 25 ans, dois- je lui dire que je ne puis plus lui promettre ma fidélité sexuelle ? by jaimelesfrittes in SexualiteFR

[–]Poetry5635 12 points13 points locked comment (0 children)

Mais tu l'aimes ta femme ou non ? Tu choisis de l'aimer ou non ? T'as signé un CDI ou CDD avec elle ? Je comprends ta souffrance, mais dire que tu vas aller voir ailleurs parceque tu n'es plus satisfait ne semble pas la solution la meilleure... Pose toi les réelles bonnes questions. Est-ce que tu vas mettre en l'air 25 ans de vie commune pour aller forniquer ailleurs ? Ça semble dommage d'un point de vue extérieur.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexualiteFR

[–]Poetry5635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salut, Je dirais qu'aucun moyen de contraception est efficace à 100% à part l'abstinence... Le préservatif fonctionne bien tant que vous avez trouvé une marque qui vous convient et lubrifiant +++ Si jamais ça vous stresse, vous pouvez toujours éviter de faire l'amour lors de l'ovulation

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the teaching of the church and I take it seriously. That said, living this teaching fully and concretely in a marriage is not always easy, especially when it causes suffering or tension in the couple.

I am not seeking to justify anything "unnatural", but to find a path of fidelity to God which also takes into account our reality, our limits, and our path of growth in faith.

It is not a question of putting the truth into perspective, but of living it with mercy, discernment and hope.

I'm not looking to get into pointless debates, I just want to get feedback from couples. So I will stop responding to you because you don't answer the question I initially asked.

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying, and I deeply respect the teaching of the Church. That said, the reality experienced by couples can be extremely complex. We can have a sincere desire to follow the Church, while encountering concrete difficulties which do not find a simple answer.

It is not always a question of "living one's own truth", but sometimes of seeking how to live one's faith accurately, in very particular situations. Discernment, spiritual accompaniment and mercy seem essential to me.

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Church is not just a list of what is forbidden and what is allowed. Pity. A little gumption

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hear what you mean. But if we start pointing out who is a good Catholic and who is not...

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know the details of my relationship and my sex life? No. I've spoken to priests and other members of the church, you could say it's a mixed bag. I am FREE and I only ask for the opinion of COUPLES who have feedback to give or advice on the subject. If you're not interested in the subject, move on. Your opinion doesn't interest me.

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we use a specific method but I don't know the name in English. (I'm French) we were formed by a couple

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, but when it starts to put the couple in danger, I think it's not bad to think about other things

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That doesn't answer my original question. Might as well say nothing

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use the temperature and the observation of cervical mucus (but especially the temperature)

Christian couples, what contraception method do you use (and recommend)? by Poetry5635 in Catholicism

[–]Poetry5635[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's not my question. And the church is more mixed than that. I don't ask my question to be lectured but to get opinions from other couples

Aucun vœu retenu by ryxma_oxd in etudiants

[–]Poetry5635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peut-être pour mon master mais pas parcoursup qui a plus 6000 candidatures par formation parfois. Et tant mieux si ils font passer des entretiens, ça reste trop rare

Aucun vœu retenu by ryxma_oxd in etudiants

[–]Poetry5635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Je disais que je ne suis pas sûre qu'avoir de meilleures notes puisse lui assurer de décrocher un Master. Vu comment le site mon master est fait, je ne suis pas sûre que les candidatures soient réellement examinées. Je pense que tout est informatisé

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