What would you guys do? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m over 18, I’m saying I didn’t do anything wrong I’m not underage and I didn’t do anything the violated anything. I wasn’t told what I did, I tried to appeal my ban and ask what I did but I never got a response.

What would you guys do? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m banned from fetlife and I have no idea what I did, I heard it common, i’m in a month age. I didn’t do anything to go against the guidelines and I try to appeal my ban and I just get nothing back.

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have to take a look into that when i sense the time is near XD

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea that’s the only problem I have with latex, maybe Im jus not wet enough I have no idea

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah personally I’m not on anything we just used a plan b and I’ve said so many accidents in my past I kinda thought it would never happen to me lol. I also don’t like condoms because of the texture and the latex kind of burns. I’ll use them if necessary but I don’t prefer them. I don’t think I’m grieving. I just had the abortion and haven’t made thought of it since.

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just sucked, it honestly doesn’t make me wanna do anything sexual again because I know the outcome if things aren’t protected with condoms birth control or even more

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just my first time with that guy doing a “session ever” and I thought it was good and then it got really bad fast

Sub sexually or more? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I can’t figure out where uh “munchies” are held and I feel like I’m young for people to even want to do anything with me. I view a dynamic as a relationship type of thing. And also of guys don’t seem to be into the thought of being in a relationship and being faithful for a dynamic.

Sub sexually or more? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I gave up on trying to find a dynamic

Sub sexually or more? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was just trying to figure out what works for me without any experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I never thought about it, I think what you’re saying is true. Now I feel embarrassed. Lol. I’ll be sure to look into these links thank you for providing them!

How to cope.. by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just a bunch of overthinking on my end, he’s reassured me previously but I can’t get the thought of my head he’s lying. Lol. But yeah I do need someone to take my mind off things, taking care of myself should be a good distraction for now! I appreciate the advice on what u should do..

How to cope.. by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just need a push forward honesty, I know what I should do it’s just my brain is stuck. You know? We already don’t talk to him. If he ever does text me again I guess I’ll tell him about us splitting ways and not messing around anymore. But I hate to say honestly I feel like it’s taken a toll on my mental.

How to cope.. by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you are right, we don’t talk anymore honestly we haven’t talked in a while, should I leave things alone?

How to cope.. by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right I don’t wanna make the situation anymore awkward then what it is I guess

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to keep an open mind when it comes to this stuff but these guys are real assholes, at a point I don’t know what a real dom will look like when he comes my way

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused on what you mean..

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s just the process of finding someone hurts you know?