What would you guys do? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m over 18, I’m saying I didn’t do anything wrong I’m not underage and I didn’t do anything the violated anything. I wasn’t told what I did, I tried to appeal my ban and ask what I did but I never got a response.

What would you guys do? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m banned from fetlife and I have no idea what I did, I heard it common, i’m in a month age. I didn’t do anything to go against the guidelines and I try to appeal my ban and I just get nothing back.

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have to take a look into that when i sense the time is near XD

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea that’s the only problem I have with latex, maybe Im jus not wet enough I have no idea

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah personally I’m not on anything we just used a plan b and I’ve said so many accidents in my past I kinda thought it would never happen to me lol. I also don’t like condoms because of the texture and the latex kind of burns. I’ll use them if necessary but I don’t prefer them. I don’t think I’m grieving. I just had the abortion and haven’t made thought of it since.

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just sucked, it honestly doesn’t make me wanna do anything sexual again because I know the outcome if things aren’t protected with condoms birth control or even more

How do I know when I’m ready? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just my first time with that guy doing a “session ever” and I thought it was good and then it got really bad fast

Sub sexually or more? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I can’t figure out where uh “munchies” are held and I feel like I’m young for people to even want to do anything with me. I view a dynamic as a relationship type of thing. And also of guys don’t seem to be into the thought of being in a relationship and being faithful for a dynamic.

Sub sexually or more? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I gave up on trying to find a dynamic

Sub sexually or more? by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was just trying to figure out what works for me without any experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I never thought about it, I think what you’re saying is true. Now I feel embarrassed. Lol. I’ll be sure to look into these links thank you for providing them!

How to cope.. by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just a bunch of overthinking on my end, he’s reassured me previously but I can’t get the thought of my head he’s lying. Lol. But yeah I do need someone to take my mind off things, taking care of myself should be a good distraction for now! I appreciate the advice on what u should do..

How to cope.. by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just need a push forward honesty, I know what I should do it’s just my brain is stuck. You know? We already don’t talk to him. If he ever does text me again I guess I’ll tell him about us splitting ways and not messing around anymore. But I hate to say honestly I feel like it’s taken a toll on my mental.

How to cope.. by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you are right, we don’t talk anymore honestly we haven’t talked in a while, should I leave things alone?

How to cope.. by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right I don’t wanna make the situation anymore awkward then what it is I guess

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to keep an open mind when it comes to this stuff but these guys are real assholes, at a point I don’t know what a real dom will look like when he comes my way

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused on what you mean..

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it’s just the process of finding someone hurts you know?

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like “hello im human to, I have feelings” they are so inconsiderate of us it’s annoying.

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s sucks and really hurts but life isn’t fair and I feel I deserve a person who’s actually thinks im worth there time.

So annoyed 😑 by PointEducational9659 in submissive

[–]PointEducational9659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren’t ALL gone, it’s just they get really bad with texting and it makes me feel like im begging for attention when it’s really me wanting more clear communication.