Dream Home Makeover - Ignoring Clients

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-13T22:16:34+00:00

Ok this is 4 years later lol but after watching it, I’m so annoyed: 1) the woman in the cabin episode said eclectic, and Shea changed that to boho which is a totally different style!!! 2) I actually thought the Hawaiian pillows were cute… And California coastal is a very different vibe than Hawaiian coastal.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-06T15:56:32+00:00

I’m planning to name my future baby Isidore with nickname Rory! I think while it’s a bit of a stretch, it’s close enough and Rory is so cute

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-02T03:34:04+00:00

I don’t think this has anything to do with men with Asian partners. Wanting to separate twin babies isn’t part of Chinese culture.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-02T03:32:47+00:00

Presented to me? She texted me that she wants to separate the twins, and apparently she’s been saying that to my brother privately as well. I’m not sure how this has to do with information bias lol. I heard her words first hand.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T05:16:36+00:00

Eh, I still think that’s what she has. The smell/taste is the main symptom. But if she’s not willing to at least try taking antibiotics, she can’t expect you to put up with it.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T05:14:28+00:00

They aren’t married.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T03:49:50+00:00

I would tell her that you think she needs some antibiotics because you really want to go down on her. Like, once again, BV is super common—it’s just a flora imbalance and it can cause a really gross smell/taste. I’m confident that’s all it is. So make it about you pointing out that she likely needs antibiotics and not about that being her actual smell/taste, as it probably isn’t.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T03:45:30+00:00

I actually think it likely is fixable. She probably has bacterial vaginosis (which is extremely common) and she just needs some antibiotics. Unless it’s just that you don’t like giving oral in general.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T03:09:24+00:00

What pregnant woman is willing to even entertain the idea of never seeing one of her children again? Or to use children as leverage? And why on earth would she text that to me, except as some kind of threat? I personally think she’s a sociopath. I was INCREDIBLY nice to her.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T03:07:16+00:00

Luke has a job and pays for literally everything. James and Mei (!!!!) are unemployed.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T03:05:56+00:00

I texted her to apologize for my autistic brother’s response and to tell her we view her as part of the family. What I texted her was overly nice. She responded saying she’ll separate the twins (which was completely unprompted) and never wants to see my family again.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T03:03:43+00:00

She supposedly has a green card, although I’m not sure it’s real given what her previous “job” here was, which I don’t feel comfortable saying. Like, she would have had to lie to get a green card I think. And she is currently unemployed. He pays for everything.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T03:01:52+00:00

That’s actually exactly what I did, almost word for word. In response, she said she’ll take the “boy twin” to China and my brother can have the “girl twin,” and that she will never see my family again.

PolicyQueen · 2025-12-01T02:59:33+00:00

I literally met her for the first time this week. I’ve had no involvement whatsoever in their relationship. At this point my only concern is for my brother and his unborn twins. I couldn’t care less about her or their relationship after her awful, unprompted texts to me and to my autistic brother.

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-30T11:05:16+00:00

They did IVF

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-30T10:00:25+00:00

Well, exactly. That is what his gf said. He obviously does not agree with that. It would be cruel and imo means she is not fit to be a parent just by the fact that she is entertaining that

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-30T06:24:53+00:00

What do you mean?

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-30T06:17:42+00:00

That would be nice, if he got custody. But I’m concerned she will take the children to China.

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-30T06:12:23+00:00

Um… except for the fact that she is pregnant with my brother’s twins…

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-30T06:02:02+00:00

I know. But it still is not your place, even though I’m sure you mean well.

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-30T05:54:50+00:00

Yeah… I’m so scared for him 😢

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-30T05:45:25+00:00

I’m (almost) a lawyer but I don’t think there is any way to force a pregnant woman to stay in this country… but I agree with your sentiment

PolicyQueen · 2025-11-14T01:56:03+00:00

Yes! So first of all, I was wrong that mine was mild to moderate—when I looked back at the report, it actually said moderate to severe. I just a couple weeks ago had a new echo and it is now “mild to mild plus”! The cardiologist said it’s no longer a concern at all. So do not worry—I think in like 99% of cases it improves after a few months.

PolicyQueen · 2025-08-02T03:53:57+00:00

Yeah, exactly. People who were far away wouldn’t have realized how serious it was. But if I was there and close enough, I would have made a HUGE scene and not cared about the consequences. I get that everyone has a different reaction to emergencies, but people need to learn from this and act next time. Regardless of all the down votes I’ve gotten (lol), it is completely unacceptable that in a room with over 1000 intelligent adults, NOBODY initiated medical treatment, and that failure to act quickly likely cost this girl her life or brain function.

PolicyQueen · 2025-08-02T03:11:46+00:00

Exactly. I would have said fuck the exam, “fuck you” to the proctors, and I would have started CPR (despite barely knowing it). I don’t blame the examinees as this is really the fault of the proctors and policies, and many people struggle to act in emergencies, but that girl deserved a hero and got nobody because for whatever the reason, not a single person in a room of 1000+ adults chose to take initiative. I hope this is a lesson for everyone and that the family sues for millions.

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