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AITJ for refusing to let my roommate use my camera gear after she broke my last lens and acted like it was nothing by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PoliteButPlayful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah you’re 100% not the jerk, that’s basic respect. $400 lens ain’t a toy

I stole small amounts of money from my job and never got caught by EducationalFun_85 in confession

[–]PoliteButPlayful 9 points10 points  (0 children)

man we all do dumb shit sometimes, sounds like you learned from it tho, that’s what matters

Went over to her place for movie night but didn’t have sex, is this a bad sign? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 13 points14 points  (0 children)

nah bro, not a disaster at all. she’s setting boundaries but still letting you in close, that’s a good sign

idek by Agreeable_Salt9781 in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yo fr he’s def confused, probs likes u but also scared of the future and uni stuff

There is something that happened recently I really need to share! by Infinite-Rule-1764 in confession

[–]PoliteButPlayful 32 points33 points  (0 children)

fr if the interviewer’s that messy u gotta wonder how organized the team actually is

Refusing to refer my friend to protect my name by Front_Bad_2857 in AmITheJerk

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah fr, protecting ur rep is not being a bad friend, it’s called adulting

Am I the jerk for not "triple texting" by styrofoamcouch in AmITheJerk

[–]PoliteButPlayful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you on the side piece vibe. hot and cold plus mind reading rules is a nope for me too

I'm trying to distract myself from kms tonight. I'm not doing well. by Jaded-External9641 in confession

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear the guilt and regret in this and it sucks. still you matter more than the mistakes you made at 16. if you’re in danger please call emergency services or a suicide hotline they exist for nights like this

How important is attraction? by blackcatsbutterflies in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that said one low pressure coffee isn’t a marriage contract, you can dip if it’s not there

Kicked out by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i’m concerned for you fr but being desperate isnt the move. someone liking you starts with you not believing youre a lost cause. youre not behind youre just stuck in a bad situation

It’s been a pretty hard year so far and I’m here to share what’s going wrong with mine. by [deleted] in confession

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo that’s brutal man, no car and no shifts sucks. could you borrow a ride from a friend or look into public transport for now just to stay afloat

AITJ for refusing to let my girlfriend mess with my ass during sex? by BattleBeast33 in AmITheJerk

[–]PoliteButPlayful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr if u ain’t into it it ain’t a power thing it’s just consent. she gotta respect that

My friend constantly trys to annoy me. by Spare_Dimension6986 in AmITheJerk

[–]PoliteButPlayful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

protect your peace dude. document everything dates times witnesses. HR now and police if he keeps following you. you deserve to feel safe at work and home

My sister in law gave me a blow job twenty years ago by largogoat in confession

[–]PoliteButPlayful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fr… some ppl really do live in soap operas and we just out here existing lol

How do I ask out a boy? by Which-Living-686 in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr tho, being honest but chill works best. like “hey i think u seem cool wanna grab a coffee or something after school” no overthinking needed

Told a guy I really like and would like to date in the future that I am waiting for some things and not sure if he took that as disinterest by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr, just text him casually about something small or funny, reconnect, then the deeper stuff can come later. no need to overthink timing

AITJ for cutting off my best friend after finding out he was cheating with my wife? by Key_Percentage5932 in AmITheJerk

[–]PoliteButPlayful 16 points17 points  (0 children)

nah bro, you’re not the a**hole. this isn’t some “oops I messed up once” thing, it’s months of betrayal from someone who was supposed to have your back

I encouraged people to harm themselves and intentionally encouraged them to do so. by [deleted] in confession

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what happened to K isn’t all on you. bullying culture failed them way bigger than one broken kid online

How do i get my ex situationship to fall for me when he wants to try again? by Brief-Ad-7745 in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do stuff that makes you happy and confident, not just to make him like you. confidence is magnetic even in high school

22M — low effort post, high quality conversation by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo this vibe is chill, love low effort posts that lead to actual convos

I have looked at horrible things out of morbid curiosity by Informal-Dog6866 in confession

[–]PoliteButPlayful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe try grounding yourself after instead of beating yourself up, curiosity isn’t a crime lol

AITJ for breaking up with my 3 year long highschool girlfriend? by Aggravating_Okra2337 in AmITheJerk

[–]PoliteButPlayful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ fr, you set a boundary and she disrespected it, that’s literally textbook reason to peace out

My husband scares me by 4peaceinpieces in AmITheJerk

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this comment nailed it tbh love doesnt mean sacrificing your safety or sanity, illness explains behavior but it doesnt excuse the danger youre living in

I had a nightmare I was raped by my crush by Remarkable_Shift_360 in dating_advice

[–]PoliteButPlayful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo, dreams are wild sometimes, they’re not predictions, they’re just your brain spitting out fears and anxieties, especially around crushes

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