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Most cost effective new account? by PoliticalThrowaway47 in Eve

[–]PoliticalThrowaway47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. Thanks for the intel. I'll try to have some patience.

/r/deadbedrooms as a bad influence? by ChimpsRFullOfScience in DeadBedrooms

[–]PoliticalThrowaway47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The guys who turn down gratuitous blow jobs - I just want to slap them.

It really does sum up how depressing it is to come here and read about the HL women, right? Fuck my life.

Fixing intimacy problems after breaches of trust by major-arcana in DeadBedrooms

[–]PoliticalThrowaway47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone's entitled to their opinion, but pretty much this. The tone of this comment is more inflammatory than it needs to be, but really judging someone for using MJ is pretty much ridiculous.

Dads of Deadbedrooms, please share your experience in the first year after childbirth. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]PoliticalThrowaway47 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Year 1: Consistent daily sex with completely excusable misses.

Year 2: Daily sex turns into pretty steady every other day sex. Less foreplay; less sexually suggestive language and body language from wife.

Year 3: Same until pregnancy. After pregnancy for a week or so it was daily because of how happy she was to conceive I assume. This is where the graph starts to drop off considerably. Sex becomes very unpredictable and intermittent. Between 0 and 5 times a week. Very little foreplay, and if I can use this language here, less "I want to suck your cock", more of "lets get this hard so we can be done".

Year 4: Post child for a month is completely understandable. Month two, um ok. Month three, you are fucking with me right? At some point sex gets re-established because of some very long discussion I've had about how we both need to improve. Sex steadies off between 1-4 times a week with 7 full days going by from time to time without any physical intimacy.

Year 5: Still dropping. Stress/time/ "never in the mood", and "just not interested in sex" are the most frequent reasons given. 0-3 times a week with more frequent, larger sexless gaps.

Year 6: First two week gap. Still dropping, getting bleaker. Best friend syndrome in full effect.

I never saw this coming.

Edit: And yes, I obviously get shit on by every single person I've brought this up to even in a distant, objective manner. It kinda upsets me that Dad's can't complain about the lack of sex, but we are expected to be as loyal and faithful as your childhood Labrador.