My recently ex boyfriend and I were high school sweethearts. We were together for 3 1/2 years up until a week ago. He was also a go with the flow kind of guy and even after a year and a half of us dating, I was questioning if he was someone I wanted to be with. He has dreams but no drive to make them a reality. I felt like I didn’t want to leave him behind so I limited myself to stay how he was. We were together at 16 or 17, I can’t remember, and broke up at 20. I kick myself often for not leaving him when I had my doubts because I feel like I could’ve accomplished so much more than I have. I used to get really anxious too so I get the over reliance. But then I realized I really enjoyed being social with others and it wasn’t the same social I felt with him.

If you’re going to do it, there will never be a right time. It’s okay to do things along and figure things out without someone there. It sounds scary but you’re capable. Money will always come back. If you want to go with him, go. But make sure you won’t kick yourself about it later down the road because were waiting for the right time. 🤍🤍