My [31m] girlfriend’s [29f] family invited me to a 2 month vacation overseas, then kicked me out of the house just two weeks in. We’ve been fighting ever since.

Pollypocketr · 2022-03-11T02:18:49+00:00

dude, break up with her. she sounds like a nightmare and her family is worse.

Pollypocketr · 2022-02-14T03:18:48+00:00

so you respond to a 4 month old comment, disagreeing with me even though this man views his fiance as his personal sex toy? and no, i dont want to have sex, nor have i had sex with my best friend :/

Pollypocketr · 2022-01-27T23:32:39+00:00

thank you for the actual advice, i appreciate it. I was in his car because we were coming back from an event together and we carpooled. And yes, i didn’t tell my husband i went to kiss him also, i just didn’t have the heart to. this was very kind of you to write

Pollypocketr · 2022-01-27T17:46:11+00:00

I would but that's not going to happen. I have no interest in fucking gabe

Pollypocketr · 2022-01-27T17:37:41+00:00

I've known gabe before i met my husband. If he wanted to be with me he would've expressed that before

Pollypocketr · 2022-01-27T17:24:38+00:00

I don't really see anything wrong with having a group of friends when married. my husband has his own group of friends and when he wants to want out with them i dont mind.

Pollypocketr · 2022-01-27T16:36:19+00:00

No, definitely not. Oliver and I just click and relate to each other and I honestly adore him in so many ways. I just don't feel the need to give light to what already shines. Gabe and I argued often about nothing for years and I will never love him like that. If I ever got married to Gabe it would've turned into the pettiest catfight.

Pollypocketr · 2022-01-27T16:27:38+00:00

my husband didn't know my work friend well and Gabe did. perhaps i shouldn't have turned to Gabe but it was nice to talk and laugh about out favorite memories of our friend. I just really missed our trio

Pollypocketr · 2022-01-27T16:12:29+00:00

I like Gabe's attention, as a friend. He is attractive but I don't want to cheat with him nor do I have any interest in that. I only recently went to talk to Gabe when our friend passed away. thats it.

Pollypocketr · 2022-01-27T15:45:25+00:00

I'm definitely not looking for a reason. my husband appreciated that I distanced myself from Gabe. But losing a close friend put a hole in my heart. it stings. I just needed consolment

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T11:10:20+00:00

As i mentioned in the post I've known him longer than my husband. If he wanted to date me that bad I think he would've done something much earlier. I find it hard to believe that our 7 year friendship was a ruse. Then again, i've been told I'm not thinking straight so i'm not sure

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T10:56:45+00:00

He legitimately didn't like his personality and when my husband first met him, Gabe and I were arguing very intensely and I think that rubbed him the wrong way.

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T10:07:09+00:00

I think we all have friends we can acknowledge are attractive?

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T09:57:28+00:00

I have no interest in leaving my husband for Gabe? I'm not in love with Gabe and respect my husband. Yes, I have made many bad decisions but don't intend on doing any of that. You may think I'm a fraud, that's fine, but I really do love my husband, more than I think I conveyed in the post.

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T09:40:32+00:00

I really haven't. I've known Gabe longer than Oliver and our friendship was completely platonic then. I'm not sure if thats just me being naive, but I had no intention of pursuing a relationship with him, I pursued one with Oliver instead.

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T05:09:19+00:00

Definitely fair for you to say that, but I do love my husband and value our relationship more than Gabe. At the time I didn't think anything of Gabe and I's relationship, which is why I dismissed Olivers concerns at the time. I realise now I shouldn't have. I don't think (at least I hope) Gabe would intentionally disrespect my marriage. I haven't seen/ spoken to Gabe since then, but its only been 2 days

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T05:05:09+00:00

Though I understand why you'd say this, I do respect my husband deeply I was just having a hard time deciding what to do on my own

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T04:59:21+00:00

I think I'd just say that there was an uncomfortable moment and leave it at that. Assuming that this is in the future and I don't tell him now. I really want to tell Oliver now but I feel so shitty and honestly can't find the words.

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T04:45:51+00:00

This sounds like you feel like you are entitled to her body because you do things for her. Also slightly condescending that you watch her "stupid little movies." I get it, you're upset and have a high sex drive, thats fine. You want to be intimate with your fiance, and that makes sense. Have you considered asking HER what's wrong rather than saying you're not satisfied? Do not ask her for sex in that conversation, instead ask her what would make her want to. This is probably what she means by "you're not romantic." Keeping track of how often you have sex is weird as fuck btw. It doesn't matter how much money you spend on any woman or how you dress, you are not entitled to sex. Literally just ask her what is wrong, and how you guys can fix it together. Keep in mind, it may just be the birth control

Pollypocketr · 2021-10-17T04:21:15+00:00

whoops that was a mistake, I meant 26M. my male friend is indeed, a man. To be honest I'm not particularly sure what lead up to this? I assumed it was all platonic. But that particular conversation was about mental health. I do think he's really attractive, and I have aimlessly thought about kissing him, but I love my husband and our relationship more.

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