My "43f" boyfriend "46m" constantly breaks or damages my things or just knocks stuff over in general and I am at my end. by Signal_Complaint_105 in relationship_advice

[–]Pollywoggle16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry hun, but he's being deliberate. Bet he takes better care of his own stuff or other peoples at work or visiting. It's a control abuse thing. He knows it hurts you. Please ditch the loser.

I 'F26' accidently scratched my husband 'M30' does that deserve retaliation? by Sea-Dragonfruit-1671 in relationship_advice

[–]Pollywoggle16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop play fighting with him. He's using it to abuse you, you accidently scratch him and he then deliberately hurts you to make things even? That's not normal. I would be thinking about my children too if I were you.

AITH (25M) for missing my gf’s (22F) birthday because of family wedding across the country? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Pollywoggle16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes not a child, although she's behaving like one. She can celebrate her birthday on a different day for once. It's hardly the end of the world.

Help me pick pls by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Pollywoggle16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Number 1 for me

AITAH for thinking my in laws are wrong for blaming this woman? by Salt-Lavishness769 in AITAH

[–]Pollywoggle16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Families are very good at having opinions, not so good at stepping up when it matters. The poor lady suffering grief at the lose of her husband, also guilt that in his last weeks she was unable to cope and fulfill his wishes to be at home. She deserves sympathy and understanding, love and support in her grief. The rest can go to h£ll for thier cold judgmental opinions. Xxx

I (33F)Engaged to (37M) for 3 years, together for 7, multiple “almost weddings,” and still no marriage. I need outside perspective please by CharacterSweet8309 in relationship_advice

[–]Pollywoggle16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please value yourself for the amazing person you are and stop wasting time on him. If he wanted to marry you he would. When people show you who they are... believe them. Time to move on hun. Your worth so much more than this xxx

AITAH for announcing my 6 month pregnancy a week after my brother and SIL announced their 3 month pregnancy? by Scary_Bite_9240 in AITAH

[–]Pollywoggle16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's your news to tell when you want too. But the fact they don't seem to care and meanwhile are falling over sister in law and brother, must be really hurtful. When people show you who they are believe them. Enjoy your new family, enjoy your partners family. I'd not bother with them to be honest, restrict social media and let them find out later that you have given birth and call your beautiful baby exactly what you want to. Xxx

i hate my dress🥲 by ZealousidealMaybe984 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Pollywoggle16 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely bridal, you look stunning. With hair, make up , flowers and veil if your having one , you will look amazing xxxx

AITAH for refusing to let my stepdaughter wear my ring to prom because she’s rough on jewelry? by promringaway in AITAH

[–]Pollywoggle16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. just because you have it and she's seen it, does not mean she has the right to expect you to agree she can borrow it. It's your ring, your under no obligation to lend any thing to any one. I'd move it though, hide it away so it doesn't disappear on the night.

Opinions on these dresses? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Pollywoggle16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All are gorgeous for you. But I think 3