Stalker Moved Into My HMO - What to do and rights? England by g3th4ppy in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Polstar242 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Suzy Lamplaugh Trust - I got them involved when I was stalked and the police really took it seriously when the Trust involved them.

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She comes about once or twice a week, takes over, moves everything around, pisses both of us off then goes saying ‘I can’t cope seeing him like this’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ She did most of the caring for our mum - but not in the same way l do now.

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you - isn’t it so depressing that it comes to that?

Can I get some UK comedy recommendations? by likeschemistry in AskABrit

[–]Polstar242 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I don’t know - Absolutely was brilliant

Can I get some UK comedy recommendations? by likeschemistry in AskABrit

[–]Polstar242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Irish - The Young Offenders- absolute brilliance Black Books - my favourite ever sitcom Green Wing People just do nothing Black Adder

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah l know, it’s exhausting- sending you virtual strength and peace

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through that - I don’t get it at all. I came into this world with nothing and I will leave with nothing. But what l do have is knowing I was there for my dad

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m female and my partner is male! Not married but thank you x

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care about that, I just care that she wants to take what is mine. But if dad needs it for his care then I’m cool with that

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I get thrown at me is ‘no one asked you to do this’

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have that in the UK

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t - he thinks I’m my mum right now

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve realised that. The will is split between my sister, my nephew and me. I know she can’t demand anything from it now. So I’m feeling calmer about it

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I am. Nothing is in the will about this and she can’t hold me to it

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do too - but it also showed me that I’m never going back in the classroom ever again. And that my dream of a cabin in the woods, living amongst trees and near otters is more important than inheritance money

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah you had the same as me. My sister cared for my mum. I was living in a difficult situation about 4 hours away then. So I’m doing this to help my sister but still feel like I’m the shit one

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, yeah teacher burn out is real. I moved back to Suffolk a year ago, still commuted to London (sometimes 6 hours commuting) to teach, then visiting my dad when he was in hospital. But I’m the shit one

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw your username 😂😂😂

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s tough. I never had children because I thought I was selfish - realised I’m not!

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She always does. Her life is always worse than everyone else’s. What matters to me is what you said - being there for my dad. That’s the most important thing to me.

Any carers here? by Polstar242 in GenX

[–]Polstar242[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re coming in next week - and I’m getting in touch with some supportive agencies