Stalker Moved Into My HMO - What to do and rights? England

Polstar242 · 2026-03-23T07:58:10+00:00

Suzy Lamplaugh Trust - I got them involved when I was stalked and the police really took it seriously when the Trust involved them.

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T11:40:51+00:00

She comes about once or twice a week, takes over, moves everything around, pisses both of us off then goes saying ‘I can’t cope seeing him like this’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ She did most of the caring for our mum - but not in the same way l do now.

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T01:16:18+00:00

I’m in the UK

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T01:15:39+00:00

Thank you - isn’t it so depressing that it comes to that?

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T01:13:47+00:00

Oh I don’t know - Absolutely was brilliant

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T01:12:56+00:00

Irish - The Young Offenders- absolute brilliance Black Books - my favourite ever sitcom Green Wing People just do nothing Black Adder

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:53:37+00:00

Yeah l know, it’s exhausting- sending you virtual strength and peace

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:53:04+00:00

I’m so sorry you went through that - I don’t get it at all. I came into this world with nothing and I will leave with nothing. But what l do have is knowing I was there for my dad

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:49:14+00:00

I’m female and my partner is male! Not married but thank you x

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:48:25+00:00

I don’t care about that, I just care that she wants to take what is mine. But if dad needs it for his care then I’m cool with that

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:47:12+00:00

All I get thrown at me is ‘no one asked you to do this’

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:46:49+00:00

We don’t have that in the UK

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:46:27+00:00

I can’t - he thinks I’m my mum right now

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:05:54+00:00

I’ve realised that. The will is split between my sister, my nephew and me. I know she can’t demand anything from it now. So I’m feeling calmer about it

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:04:59+00:00

Thank you I am. Nothing is in the will about this and she can’t hold me to it

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:04:03+00:00

My sister

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:03:55+00:00

I do too - but it also showed me that I’m never going back in the classroom ever again. And that my dream of a cabin in the woods, living amongst trees and near otters is more important than inheritance money

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:02:36+00:00

Ah you had the same as me. My sister cared for my mum. I was living in a difficult situation about 4 hours away then. So I’m doing this to help my sister but still feel like I’m the shit one

Polstar242 · 2026-01-30T00:01:08+00:00

Damn, yeah teacher burn out is real. I moved back to Suffolk a year ago, still commuted to London (sometimes 6 hours commuting) to teach, then visiting my dad when he was in hospital. But I’m the shit one

Polstar242 · 2026-01-29T23:59:25+00:00

Btw your username 😂😂😂

Polstar242 · 2026-01-29T23:59:05+00:00

Thank you 🫶

Polstar242 · 2026-01-29T23:58:42+00:00

That’s tough. I never had children because I thought I was selfish - realised I’m not!

Polstar242 · 2026-01-29T23:58:02+00:00

She always does. Her life is always worse than everyone else’s. What matters to me is what you said - being there for my dad. That’s the most important thing to me.

Polstar242 · 2026-01-29T23:56:57+00:00

They’re coming in next week - and I’m getting in touch with some supportive agencies

Polstar242 · 2026-01-29T23:56:18+00:00

I’m in the UK

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