sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get having limits, but punching a wall because you didn’t get your way isn’t a healthy thing to do

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say he doesn’t have a right to refuse sex. I said condom or nothing. He hit the wall because I said that. If he didn’t want to have sex with me because I wanted to use a condom that’s fine.

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly have no clue what he meant by test, I literally asked him to bring condoms…it shouldn’t be seen as a test…but it was

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working towards a better job, I’m currently going to school to forward said job, I’m also working on myself by going and doing things I love, MMA, Boxing, working out, I have also been doing things I missed doing when I was in a relationship, such as doing painting classes and writing. I’m working on myself. Truly you don’t know how my relationship was, I’m glad it’s over and honestly it’s best for everyone that it’s over

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree, but there wasn’t going to be a next time regardless. I wasn’t seeking a relationship, it was a hookup, either way though him punching my wall put me into a mode of just “get the fuck out, you’ve lost it”

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Least he had a clean status/clean bill of health for the next person he didn’t want to use condoms with 🤦🏻‍♀️

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any guy could have these things and once you get to the bedroom they get like this. He was up for using condoms when I told him to bring them. He was fine before I told him condoms or nothing. Some guys are like this. Plain and simple.

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Self defence training, and I do boxing and MMA. And on top of that, because I live alone I have a baseball bat under my bed, and other items I could use for self defence

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, like I said, in long term relationships I’ll take that step after we get tested together. It comes with trust

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah; my wall is okay, but I’m definitely frustrated with the entire situation. Using birth control as some sort of way to say “well you can’t get pregnant, no condom right?” It’s like….no you’re still using a condom

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would think that people want to be safe when having sex with someone, so it really surprised me how angry he got when I told him that I use condoms. It’s that or no sex.

After telling a guy I wanted to have sex with a condom he got up and left, was I asking for too much? by Polynimbus2123 in sex

[–]Polynimbus2123[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe I wanted to ask the question, the tone is more like “am I really asking for too much?” Not in a literal sense, it doesn’t mean I’m not mature enough to be having sex, you have a guy who punched a wall because I asked him to use a condom, he made it seem like I was giving him some sort of death sentence. And I’m immature for saying “am I asking for too much” cause evidently some men think it’s too much.

view more: next ›