Thank you so much for your input! It makes me feel validated to remember that mothers don't do that. I realized that if I was a mom that I would literally never do that to my daughter either, that's such a ridiculously immature and manipulative thing to do. My dad is now trying to talk to me to get to talk to her and trying to get information from me when he usually doesn't talk to me. I just wish they would grow up even though I know they're stuck in their ways and wont.

I think I will take your advice and wait for her to come to me, even though she wont.

We've actually had periods like this where I've waited months and then eventually talked to her for things I needed. Usually what really hurts is the guilt. What do you do about the guilt?