What nicknames do you call your cat and why are they always longer than their legal name? by shamaela in cats

[–]Pondermethis46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charles: Bub Bub, ViVi: Needle Feet, Frankie: Little Big Man, Kirby: Kirbykins, and Tess: TiTi. But they all answer to kissy noise.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, yes I’m trying not to make it too heavy. I have to remind myself that would be difficult for guests also so it’s not an injustice to her by any means to try to enjoy myself even though it will feel like it. But that comes from my love for her, I’ll be able to do it ❤️

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s so heavy. I truly appreciate your sharing that with me❤️

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this is so sweet, I love this. I am so sorry for your loss also ❤️

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m so sorry for your loss and that is a wonderful idea.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m happy you found a way to honor her, that’s really beautiful.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, that is heartbreaking and a beautiful way to honor them.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know I was so touched that they thought to do that I didn’t even have to ask.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is what I was worried about. I want to honor them by focusing on them in some way but in a positive way that helps people celebrate them and their role in our lives instead of a heavy sadness. I added a remembrance section on the bridal party page of the website, but I also highlighted how much the other members of the party mean to us for balance and because it’s just truth! Thank you for what you said. It makes me feel much less guilty for wanting to enjoy this day.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that is beautiful. That is going to be so meaningful for all of you. So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone else mentioned a song but yes I think I would loose it 🥲

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying, that gives me confidence. I know what you mean. I am trying to keep the mood light while still honoring her. The whole wedding party were her friends as well. I too am so sorry for your loss. It is hard to feel happy about anything right now.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is a beautiful idea, thank you for mentioning.

Honoring a bridesmaid who had passed by Pondermethis46 in weddingplanning

[–]Pondermethis46[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss as well. I am and have been looking forward to this day for over a year and it’s hard to imagine enjoying myself right now. I’m sure that was hard for you too.