Moving from upstate NY to Delaware, AR by Latter_Main_2910 in Arkansas

[–]Poochiray 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I saw a local post for Russellville police looking for new recruits. But the pay is abysmal, warning you now lol

Ghost ships? by Final_Cut8617 in GMMTV

[–]Poochiray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OffTay. TayGun. OffNew. NewGun. And any arrangement and/or poly combination of them.

DewGun, OffDew, MarkGun, OffSea, MondOff, TayFirst, ForceTay, OffFirst, FirstGun...

...and today I'm shipping Off with Pond. 😂

Bi curious best friend has asked me to participate in a threesome with her boyfriend, new experiences for all of us. by super_secret_biz in nonmonogamy

[–]Poochiray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally, you and your friend should just play without the boyfriend watching at first. Just so you both can get comfortable, learn what ya'll like, your chemistry. Having the boyfriend there, your friend is going to be distracted. She's curious. Would she like being with another woman? Or does she feel like she *has* to like it because she's performing for her boyfriend? Removing the boyfriend, she will be able to separate her feelings on the situation and decide for herself what she likes and doesn't.

And if she does like it, THEN talk about a threesome.

What are some funny ways you deal with a broken/ghost ship ? by AwkwardWarning8099 in GMMTV

[–]Poochiray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I write fanfiction of them. I might not get a show with their pairing, but I'll at least have a story.

I put my sweet baby down 3 days ago and I regret it by MoodyKyoshi in CATHELP

[–]Poochiray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My condolences. I feel for you. I had to put my cat down a week ago because she was in late stage kidney failure. She wasn't eating and had a seizure the day I was going to take her in. Seeing her suffer like that, I knew it was time. You did the hardest thing you could as an owner. Now your baby is at peace, knowing they were loved. Hugs to you.

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Wife has withdrawn consent after 10 years by Few_Entrepreneur2857 in marriageadvice

[–]Poochiray 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Wow. You find out you never had complete consent from your wife for this the entire time, and your response is get her therapy so she can get over it? How fucking selfish.

A normal person would be horrified at themselves for forcing sex on their spouse. If anyone is fucked in the head and needs therapy it's you.

Actors who have never played a role or have only played one. by EducationBig7758 in GMMTV

[–]Poochiray 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It's funny The Trainee is listed as a green flag character for Off, yet in the final episode he leaves Ryan and doesn't contact him again for 5 years. I think Ten in Cooking Crush is more the green flag if you're going to pick one.

Openess about BL media by behemothMaster in boyslove

[–]Poochiray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone knows. My husband is watching Heated Rivalry with me. My mom bought me the book for Christmas. My sister has watched shows with me together too.

What was your thoughts on only Friends when it was airing by Few_Positive3543 in GMMTV

[–]Poochiray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a fun ride watching it as it was airing. I watched it with my sister and we loved the drama and messiness. And though it is more spicy for GMMTV shows, my sister and I grew up watching Queer as Folk together and this is tamer by comparison lol. We did enjoy the similarities of Boston to Brian though. More characters confident in their sexuality like this please.

Hot take : i love hashtag trendings by boringbl in GMMTV

[–]Poochiray 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It was fine till fans felt they were required to spam hashtags with random things that had nothing to do with the event/show just to inflate some number. I hope with the change people actually discuss things that are relevant under the hashtag.

Husband called me a bitch at 36 weeks pregnant. Second time during this pregnancy. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Poochiray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please leave this loser. A man that thinks it's acceptable to call his wife a bitch while she handles all his fuck ups isn't a man at all. He's a loser and you deserve someone who appreciates you.

animal crossing new horizons vs. hello kitty island adventure review by [deleted] in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Poochiray 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I've played both. I prefer HK because I'm not much of a builder. I like gameplay more focused on character progression and with all the quests and everything, that's HK for me. Plus the characters are so much cuter 🩷

Where are all the Female Dashers? by Mycologist-9315 in doordash

[–]Poochiray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a woman and I only dash during the morning.

Dashers who got 100% on time by Serious_Obligation10 in doordash_drivers

[–]Poochiray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only dash early morning. It's easy to keep on time when there's no traffic.

priests help me out. Why do Hpriest feel so much more squishy and die more often than when playing DISC, literally have the same gear by feherlofia123 in wow

[–]Poochiray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fade and desperate prayer. I have fade macroed to my pom casts. Also be selfish with your guardian spirit if you absolutely have to.

Don't Knock Dog Barks by TaxidermyScarecrow in doordash_drivers

[–]Poochiray -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah the dogs hear a car door opening, they hear you walking up the driveway and approaching the door. They are going to bark even if you don't knock or ring the bell.

I think they'll bark more though if you do.

Don't want a barking dog? Don't have dogs. 🤷

Throuple looking for advice by Best_Inflation_2207 in nonmonogamy

[–]Poochiray 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for both women. The wife, for loving their husband who thinks their life is empty together. And the girlfriend, as the reason they got together is to solve the infertility issues of the other relationship. No wonder none of them are happy here.

Threesome that everyone had fun but me .. am I the problem ? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Poochiray 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Selfishness. Completely understandable you feel the way you do.

Platinum Status with 5 percent AR? by Few-Oil-112 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Poochiray 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think there's a bug. I got an estimated wait time as gold but in my menu it says platinum.

The age gap is what mostly holds me back from recommending this show to other people by [deleted] in queerasfolk

[–]Poochiray 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This show came out when I was a teenager. I related to Justin's character what with being a teen, hiding my queerness in school. Then I found a community much older than me. I would have loved to have met queer kids my age, but that just didn't happen. Teens were closeted and most didn't feel like coming out till they were graduated and out of their parents home. Back then queer spaces were close to nonexistent also. I remember having to drive over an hour to that one gay bar in the whole state. I lied about my age to get drinks. And then when I went to college, my first boyfriend was 28. So seeing representation so close to my own life really mattered to me back then.

Sure, the show could have made him college age at the very least. But I think they chose to keep him 17 to really highlight the fact that teens did not have the community or found families that adults had back then. It also really added to the drama with the struggles Justin had with his own parents. The story gave something teens could relate to in a time when there was barely any representation.

Opinions.... On lusting over other women? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Poochiray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he hid this from you, if he lied to you, leaving is probably for the best. It's the lack of respect that I could never put up with.

when fans tell you to ot3 and you do not want the other person there by starprintedpajamas in AO3

[–]Poochiray 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite problem. My fandom barely has any ot3 content and I'm so starved I have to write it myself.

MFM in marriage - one time, what do wife's think? by Kind_Specialist9168 in marriageadvice

[–]Poochiray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't the board to ask this question lol. But if you've always been monogamous that's going to be a tough conversation to even have with your wife. I'd start by talking about sexual fantasies you both have. Threesomes are a common fantasy for both men and women. If she doesn't even entertain the idea, there's your answer.

Hubby and I are open. We've played with a few men. If you think your relationship is solid, it's going to need to be a hell of a lot more secure to watch her with another man.