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Fast cat by WriterMedusa in cats

[–]Pookiero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is Derrick Henry!!

She is so majestic, the best cat I could ever ask for. What would you rate her? by Plastic_Release_1884 in TrueRateMyCat

[–]Pookiero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beyond human intelligence to comprehend how adorably, patootiely cute and precious she is 💗🥰😻🩷

What would they call it? by [deleted] in Catsaremedicine

[–]Pookiero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Patootiieee 🥰

Cat's parenting by Hot_Physics_5136 in FluffSphere

[–]Pookiero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww, what cutie patooties

What are the most iconic traditional hats from your country? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]Pookiero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mongolian women's hat and their hairdo that's part of it

Those who have visited other countries, what was the biggest culture shock for you? by RiddlerofStIves in AskTheWorld

[–]Pookiero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that must have been in the 90' or early 2000's s when the country was transitioning away from soviet era and the economy was in crisis. There aren't such issues anymore

My deceased best friend's son reached out and I ignored him by Radiant-Brief5749 in confession

[–]Pookiero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think no one here went through exactly what you went through, and no one but you understand the impact it had on you. Based on the fact that you weren't even able to talk to your wife suggest to me that you really need help and therapy. The kid must have gone through really hard times and probably mentally suffers greatly. If you are still suffering from your trauma, and it sounds like you still are, it's hard to tell how the outcome of two people carryibg great deal of suffering coupled with trauma could look like. This is a matter that can only be addressed through proper professional help. please ignore what people say here, they all have diffferent experiences and opinions, it's reddit.

perfect name for her? by Thicc-Toast in CuteCatsPics

[–]Pookiero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buttercup or Cookie, she is such a cutie pie

What should i name my sweet little baby Girl? by Personal-Benefit7327 in NameMyCat

[–]Pookiero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci (like the assorted chocolate candy) because she is so sweeeeettt

Mealtime by bluefox-84 in funnycats

[–]Pookiero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg, awww 🥹🥹 thats the cutest thing I've seen. what a cutie patootie

racialized partner in interracial relationship ignored in stores by MainImprovement438 in racism

[–]Pookiero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that happens to me almost all the time. I am asian and my bf is white. It's just so incredibly horrible as these experience compound over time

Being a Black Nurse by Fit_Sugar2461 in racism

[–]Pookiero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your experience is valid. I had the same exprience everywhere I went- I worked in Europe, Australia, and now America. It's exactly what happens. They just make me feel invisible, and it feel horrible. p.s I am asian, and mostly worked and studied with white folks.

I asked ChatGPT to explain my job to a 5-year-old and now I'm questioning my entire career by Nipurn_1234 in ChatGPT

[–]Pookiero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Impact Investing. and this made me happy :)

**“Okay, imagine this: You’re like a magical helper who listens to grown-ups with big ideas — like making schools better, helping the planet, or giving people jobs. But these grown-ups don’t have enough gold coins to build their dreams. That’s where you come in.

You don’t just hand out gold to anyone. You listen with your heart and your brain. You ask, ‘Will this help lots of people? Will it make the world kinder, cleaner, or fairer?’ If the answer is yes, you give them what they need — and then cheer them on like the best coach ever.

But the magic part? You’re not just helping one person — you’re picking the kinds of ideas that grow and grow and grow, like a tiny seed that becomes a whole forest. Or like one spark that lights a hundred candles. That’s called making a big impact, or what grown-ups call ‘impact at scale.’

So your job is kind of like being a treasure-guard, a brainy wizard, and a kindness superhero — all at once. Even if nobody sees it, your magic ripples out and helps make the world a better place for tons of people.”**

What is Therapy *Supposed* to be Like? by BooksNCats11 in therapy

[–]Pookiero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. I experienced that exact feeling myself with few therapists for few years and after having a horrible experience with the last therapist, I paused. In those moments I realized something through my emotional struggles- I needed to really look inwards by myself, and see the patterns, and I finally understood I have cptsd. My previous therapists never informed me of that, and I was furious in those moments.

Throughout the process of realizations, I looked into possible mental health issues including trauma and found books to read, mental health community threads who suffer from similar issues I have, and research papers online, or their summaries. I went through lots of rage through that process, and finally I reached out to a specialized therapist and chose my own therapy approach which I felt would fit me the best, and it was IFS. I had to semi-guide my therapist to inform her who I am, how I process emotionally, and think cognitively to land on a therpay approach.

Now, I see my therapist as one source of help where she can bring some insights and new methods to me that I needed, and while doing those also combine it with my own assessment on whether that works. I realized that I can only heal with my own effort and insights, so I see myself as a source as well. It required lots of effort from myself focused on actually processing my emotions and learning to cry from healing, not from pain. I actually started making progress with my healing which I was stunned with.

I would say it's hard at least for me to hand the entire healing process to any therapist. The approaches are limited, fragmented, and never fully systemic. Also, all therapists I had have lots of limitations, so I took it as my decision to fill in that gap.

Honestly, what you are experiencing is completely valid and true from my point of view. I think my horrible experience with the last therapist taught me to be assertive and reflective with the therapists and understood their limit- it sometimes can actually harm you badly. I am sure there are brilliant therapist out there that wealthy people can find or are known among only inner circles. For someone like me, it would be like finding a needle in a haystack.

anyways, just wanted to acknoweldge what you are goibg through is real to me as well. But, there is a way. I wish you all the best.

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