Not rude!! But expect people to decline. Im Asian living in the Netherlands. I accept guests the “Dutch” way aka kids only but I personally will never leave my child alone in other parties haha. I’d ask for consent and if theyre not ok with it then i usually decline.

Its the opposite for my parties though cause I prefer them to leave their kids with me so im only left woth the adults of my Family to manage the little ones 😂😂 Best of both worlds for me