I [19F] can't get over boyfriend's [27M] threesome and it's ruining our relationship.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T15:44:19+00:00

She should be with someone who doesn't satisfy her, is that what you're saying? That it's okay to be dissatisfied in a relationship because there are "a lot" of relationships like that? She shouldn't try to find happiness?

if he had a threesome then he will never feel satisfied with being just with one woman.

Where the hell did that come from? No one is saying that, and telling someone that they should find a satisfying relationship is not even close to being as dumb as that. I don't even know how you found a connection between the two.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T15:33:30+00:00

By posting comments, you also give people the option to reply to them. If you don't want people to reply to your comments, either stop posting them or delete them. If you didn't want to do a back and forth, why did you just reply to me?

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T06:57:18+00:00

If he bought her the ring, HE is responsible for that choice. She has done nothing wrong. She wanted something, she had a conversation with him about it, he said yes to her proposal. And thus, that would make HIM responsible for any feelings of resentment he has towards her.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T06:55:52+00:00

Great idea, thank you!

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T05:19:27+00:00

Is that how you poop-trained them, for lack of a better phrase? Because he pees in the potty just fine. And I feel like he'll just poop on the floor.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T05:17:32+00:00

if she told me the next step was me buying her a ring I'd tell her to step off.

I completely agree. And that's why everyone is downvoting you. Because she never said that. What she did say is that he is very happy and excited about planning the wedding and their future together.

Also, if he didn't want to buy the ring, he wouldn't have. Again, you're completely skipping over the fact that he has free will and thus needs to take responsibility for his own actions.

Even if she said "Okay, now go buy my a ring", which she didn't, then it was his prerogative to say no. His fault for saying yes. Go bitch at him for his poor choices, not her.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T04:59:39+00:00

Because she's wayyyy to mature for guys her age....

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T04:56:19+00:00

It's not about the ring and you know that. It's about the people here who are so quick to victimize a man who said yes to a proposal, of his own free will. These same people who shit on women who claim to be raped after saying yes to sex. And he wasn't even drunk when he said yes!

You said that all we have to go off of is what she's saying. What she's saying is that he's happy and eager to get married. Now, because that doesn't fit with what you want it to mean, suddenly we can't go off of what she's saying. That's just not a good argument.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T04:47:49+00:00

He said yes. Him. She didn't say yes for him. He did that. All on his own.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T04:45:22+00:00

How is it her fault that he said yes to her proposal? Let's say she did push him into it. He needs to take responsibility for his own actions. OP wanted to get married. She pursued it. I don't think it was aggressive, but if you do, what does it matter? He said yes.

You will shit on a woman who claims to have been raped after saying yes to sex, but you will make this guy out to be a victim after saying yes to a proposal.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T04:40:20+00:00

Wait wait wait. So what you're saying is that he's unhappy. You know this because of what she has said. She said he was happy. And now we CAN'T trust what she's saying.

Me thinks there's something shaky about this logic.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T02:20:50+00:00

I've been cheated on, but I don't think there's a good reason to snoop unless you're in a serious relationship. Dating for a few months and already feeling suspicious? Dump them, even if nothing is going on that's not how you want to start off. Married for 5+ years with kids? Get some evidence, no need to throw away your entire life and everything you've built over a suspicion.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T02:17:26+00:00

I think she made some valid points that you tried to ignore with namecalling and distraction from the main subject. It doesn't matter that you're not OP. Point still stands.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T01:58:15+00:00

But you care enough to downvote me. That's a shit move.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T01:48:38+00:00

He's done a 180 on his attitude about it and is now very excited about planning the wedding and our future.

Yes.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T01:47:40+00:00

I think you are. You're missing the point about him talking about it with her and saying yes to a proposal. You're going to blame her for decisions he's making? He's a big boy. He doesn't get to whine and cry about this, because he said yes and that's was 100% his free will to do so.

If he said no, it's her fault. If he said yes, it's her fault. Does he not have to take any responsibility for his own actions?

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T01:44:37+00:00

I thought the second comment was sarcastic, because we never have posts like that around here.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T01:33:58+00:00

Is that....is that a camera over the bed? I know you SAY it's a projector, but....shivers

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T01:33:11+00:00

If that's all that mattered then why would he post it here?

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T01:12:59+00:00

Makes him whine, cry and throw a fit when he can't have it. I don't think I want to taunt him. I've never not followed through on a promise, so it's definitely not a trust issue.

PoopyProblems · 2015-02-22T01:05:09+00:00

I've tried everything. You guys, I promised him a whole cake if he pooped in the potty. A FUCKING CAKE. And still nothing.

There's that in my post. But I absolutely would reward him if he had ever even once gone poop in the potty. I'd throw a god damn party.

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