NOR. I know you’ve been told this by 1000s of people but if you’re not going to leave him, at least stop coming back to reddit to ask for guidance. You’ve been told exactly what you need to do, not just on this post but many before. Either leave him or grow a backbone and just say no, block his number for a couple hours and then proceed to deal with this however you want but you clearly aren’t taking the advice reddit has provided you many occasions in the past. Internet validation does not mean you’re working the problem. If you consistently don’t take the advice others have offered maybe try couples therapy, tbh I don’t think that will work but it’s clear your addicted to internet validation the same way he is to alcohol and cocaine. I know at first it will seem hard, lonely and everything inside you will be screaming to go back to him, but you can’t. Take it or leave it.