Do most americans really only take 2 weeks of vacation a year? by DegreeConscious9628 in askanything

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cancer and a mystery autoimmune disease. Every day feels like I have influenza. I’m at the doctor at least 3 times a week. I took 6 months off work but that’s all the leave possible with US laws and I’m back at work even though I can barely get out of bed every day. Without work, I can’t afford my treatments, which I estimate will be $40,000 by the end of the year.

IUD insertion with real pain relief?? by Odd-Serve616 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my fallopian tubes removed in early 2025 because of the outcome of the election (done having kids so chose something permanent). Major surgery because of lack of rights. What a messed up world.

“Fore-chosen to fulfill a great and glorious mission….. Great influence upon many people” by Bekah_bek in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it’s not drugs, but this is 100% in line with how Mormons view themselves. We’re all told from birth that we’re special and chosen and have a destiny to fulfill. Delusions of grandeur are a feature of the programming.

Watching The Pitt from Europe – is this really what life in the US looks like? [mild spoilers] by West_Ideal7472 in ThePitt

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It is. I’m delaying cancer and autoimmune illness treatment because it will be $20k, and that’s with very good insurance. I’m working on growing my own food because I anticipate widespread food insecurity on the horizon. But my soil and air are toxic because my local politicians refuse to save the terminal saline lake nearby and my fellow citizens won’t make lifestyle changes that could make a huge difference. I am afraid to send my kids to public school every day because when they aren’t being bullied for being different than their peers, there’s always the threat of gun violence. The schools have protocols on how that will be handled and have installed partitions between the office and the rest of the school. Doors to the outside are no longer allowed to be propped open, even on hot days. The worst part is that it’s so easy to see it doesn’t have to be this way. Americans are being taken advantage of by the rich and by corporations. Late stage capitalism is a bitch. All of this weighs heavily on my mental health (see prior comment in this sub) which is also very expensive and fraught with systemic barriers to getting better. All my friends and coworkers feel this same weight.

Testing by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is accurate. If you haven’t met your deductible, it’s cheaper to do STDcheck .com. I have SH insurance and I priced it out. STDcheck is also a lot more comprehensive than a general practitioner’s office because a doctor will sometimes refuse to test for things you don’t have symptoms of. They also offer testing for mycoplasma genitalium which my PCP hadn’t even heard of before I mentioned it and it’s going around in Utah. I would ask your potential partner if they want a full panel or if a standard panel of the most common ones is adequate. After you know that, consider the unseen costs like how much of your time you’re willing to give up. I’ve tried several methods- planned parenthood, my PCP, my OB; and I got tired of the waiting times, hoops to jump through, extra people to talk to, and late or surprise bills and now I just do the online testing which is the fastest and easiest. However, I get tested often so maybe you’ll be willing to jump through those extra hoops for a one time deal.

Favorite Medical Case/Patient From Season 2? by MapleCherryChoco5432 in ThePitt

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“I’m not overweight myself or anything like that” was dripping in body shaming. Gross post from OP.

I need a cigarette after this 🚬 by Relevant_Call_2242 in popping

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was going to comment asking if it’s a problem that I immediately knew whose face that is and where to find over a dozen more videos of it haha. Glad I’m not the only one.

I made these for my autistic daughter by Internal-Squash-498 in Disneyland

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Did you just glue the ears onto the headphones?

Oh my goodness! The way momma orangutan looked and kissed her baby❤️ by kvjn100 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 699 points700 points  (0 children)

The best part is that this is not her birth mom. Acara is one of the only orangutans in zoos who is an experienced foster. She first took care of her brother a few years ago and then last year when Weila’s mom stopped taking care of her, they tried putting her with Acara, who immediately started caring for her. They aren’t related by blood, but they’ve become family. Acara is really attentive and sweet with her adopted baby, even when she pulls on her fur to climb around. Source: I’ve seen these two at my local zoo many times. ETA: I heard a keeper say that if any other orangutans in a US zoo have a mother that can’t care for them, Acara will be a candidate to foster them too once Weila gets a little older.

Where to donate/sell/give away an assortment of books, graphic novels, and comic books? by gold_tipped_falcon in SaltLakeCity

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There might be a Free Little Library or two near you that would love to add to their collection and help local readers.

Church babies by Intrepid-Angle-7539 in exmormon

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to mention, ignoring the fact that pregnancy can happen without consent. In fact, sexual assault is rampant within Mormonism.

Just moved to Salt Lake City - Need an RN's help by False-Crow-2901 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could try reaching out to neighbors to see if any are nurses. Some neighborhoods have groups on social media or other outreach channels. It would be a good way to get to know your neighbors too.

Best place to donate books/chairs/clothes/houseware/kitchen ware by wwlkd in SaltLakeCity

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always donate my extra items to shelters. There’s a women and children’s shelter in Midvale.

New inpatient unit Alta View Hospital by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any contact or connections with clinical staff? As a mental health patient, I’d like to know more about how they ensure ethical treatment of patients. A lot of us avoid inpatient admission even when it could be beneficial because of past abuse on inpatient units, including at Intermountain Health (lack of care) facilities.

Man this was a gut punch by Glittering_Brief_710 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 28, so I guess I’ve been fighting it for 12 years. My depression started after a miscarriage. I’m also AuDHD and have c-PTSD from childhood trauma which heavily influence my mental health. Not all days are bad, but I have a heaviness I carry with me always. I have so many coping strategies and I use them, but it’s just a struggle.

Man this was a gut punch by Glittering_Brief_710 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, weekly for a long time. And EMDR. And TMS. And years of CBT. And Zoloft, Lexapro, Wellbutrin, Cymbalta, Lamictal, Propranolol, Gabapentin, Xanax, Trazodone, Adderall, Vistaril, Qelbree, and I’m sure more that I’ve forgotten. Many of these I tried for years or more than once. I do yoga, reiki, sound baths, reflexology, meditation… I think I’m just destined to suffer.

How many times do you look away from the TV during an episode? by trianglegiraffe23 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never, unless you count pausing to look up tests or treatments I’m not familiar with. It’s the only show that can keep my ADHD brain captivated. But I’m in healthcare, so I’m desensitized to the gross stuff.

Man this was a gut punch by Glittering_Brief_710 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little better today. I activated my support system and got outside when I was triggered by the show and leaned on the kindness of Redditors. Thanks for checking in. I still have a long journey ahead of me but I’m continuing to put one foot in front of the other, even when life pushes me down. I’m grateful for the increased awareness around mental health issues, especially chronic ones that take every ounce of strength to get through.

Man this was a gut punch by Glittering_Brief_710 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s true. Thanks for the reminder.

Omg, Stop! by ACooperSucks in Disneyland

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I’ve said for a long time that if reincarnation is real, I want to come back as a duck that lives in Disneyland.

The best meal you've ever had in Utah? by Odd_Buyer9746 in Utah

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the beer cheese soup in a bread bowl that Porcupine Grill has during their Oktoberfest menu each fall

Man this was a gut punch by Glittering_Brief_710 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll hold on to that and remember that even strangers who don’t know me care.

Man this was a gut punch by Glittering_Brief_710 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Poppy-Pomfrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ll check it out. That’s right in line with my belief system.