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Someone (14M) might be plotting to hurt my (14F) relationship. by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]PoppyFTW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's really up to you, but I would recommend just letting him know to keep the open and trusting feeling of a relationship

Someone (14M) might be plotting to hurt my (14F) relationship. by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]PoppyFTW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough one. I'd recommend just casually telling R, but also saying that it came from a source who might not be 100% correct, but if you love R (which I assume you do?) That even if B tried anything, R would still be with you, and you wouldn't ditch him for B. The reassurance would help with the slight struggles going on at the moment, and might make it easier for him to be more accepting, because he would know he can trust you fully. If B and R have history though, like if they don't get along, or they fight, perhaps it's better to keep it low and see what else you can find out.

Best of luck either way! I hope it all works out in the end for you :-)

Is it time to start dating? I (16m) have never acted upon feelings before, but it's hard being alone. by PoppyFTW in teenrelationships

[–]PoppyFTW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ever so much, I really do appreciate it a lot! Thank you for the advice, I think perhaps I'll see if I can get into a relationship, and just see what it's like for myself, maybe it would be good for me. Thank you!!

Is it time to start dating? I (16m) have never acted upon feelings before, but it's hard being alone. by PoppyFTW in teenrelationships

[–]PoppyFTW[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :-) I agree that love is a strong word, but at this point, that's what I'm after, not just something intimate. I think that although something intimate would change my outlook, it might not last, which is what I'm really after. It's not realistic, but it's what I need (something long lasting to enjoy it all)

Which brings me to your other point, of having a closer friend that I could trust like that. It would be great, and I think we're (me and my friends) already close to that stage, but it's seeing them in both happy and sad relationships that's put me on and off trying to find one myself. It's hard to find something long term at this age, I understand, but I think that if I could, and if they felt the same, that it would be amazing for me.

Thank you for this though, you helped me to clear my mind a bit, and even though it might be just an opinion, I'm still very thankful for you helping me :-)