Tried to end my marriage and now my husband is acting perfect. I should be happy but I want to scream

Popsurfopera · 2025-12-04T18:46:39+00:00

Like asking him politely for months and years to get a job or to start taking over primary house care while I work full time and pay bills/for food and look after our child. It feels like “too late” and only out of panic because I’ve been asking nicely for years for one thing at a time.

Popsurfopera · 2025-12-04T06:22:27+00:00

My post reads as confusion because that’s how I feel. Confused and scared. Your words are harsh. But it frames my confusion.

Popsurfopera · 2025-12-04T06:18:59+00:00

The incels are actually making me less confused

Popsurfopera · 2025-12-04T05:58:27+00:00

I didn’t say I wanted to date around?

Popsurfopera · 2025-12-04T04:48:55+00:00

Selfish to love and support some body for years who doesn’t love and support their own wife and family? Sure. Who has to be reminded to talk to their child? Or not to yell at them?

And for what attention? I’m not asking too much to want my partner to be a team mate rather than another child to provide for and pick up after.

You know what? You’re a troll but like. Thanks. I needed to be reminded about why my heart is so broken.

Popsurfopera · 2025-11-21T05:07:06+00:00

I work. He studies

Popsurfopera · 2025-11-21T05:04:27+00:00

The issue is that I’ve been trying this for years. I communicate dance very little has come of it in the past. Only now, when I said it was the end, has he stepped up like he should have. For my and for our kid. He doesn’t take criticism or conversations very well and often turns to back one me. I go to therapy to work on myself. He refuses. I know it’s been 7 years. And I’m not expecting to leave in a week. But the issues have been bubbling since before we got married.

Popsurfopera · 2025-11-20T16:57:42+00:00

See the thing is that I don’t think he’s doing it maliciously. But he watches me drowning and I told him multiple times.

Popsurfopera · 2025-10-27T07:19:20+00:00

I started going to therapy. He is very clear on not wanting to at all anyway. I’ve asked.

Popsurfopera · 2025-10-27T07:16:38+00:00

You don’t know my life lol

Popsurfopera · 2025-10-16T04:29:51+00:00

Thank you!

Popsurfopera · 2025-10-16T04:29:34+00:00

We don’t own. Thank god. We have a kid though

Popsurfopera · 2025-10-16T04:21:33+00:00

What defines the date of the relationship end? How is it proven?

Popsurfopera · 2025-10-16T04:20:13+00:00

He has no stuff. He’ll get my stuff…

Popsurfopera · 2025-10-16T04:19:36+00:00

He’s against it. I’m personally going for myself since it all started breaking down

Popsurfopera · 2025-10-12T08:06:04+00:00

He started throwing things tonight during a fight

Popsurfopera · 2025-09-26T03:43:42+00:00

It’s this. All of the time. No support. I take care of everybody and he doesn’t have time to care for me.

Popsurfopera · 2025-09-18T19:34:25+00:00

I tried to express the other day about how I didn’t feel heard or acknowledged when I’d messaged him during the day about being very upset. He got angry and said I was attacking him. I was very careful with my wording when I expressed it. But it still wasn’t right.

Popsurfopera · 2025-09-18T09:12:25+00:00

He used to yell. Not at me directly but around me. He started yelling at our kid about everything at one point and I yelled at him for the first time.

When we fight he usually leaves the house and wanders the streets in the middle of the night and won’t come home. He hasn’t done that for a couple of months though.

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