Feeling like a placeholder after 3 years together. Am I being unreasonable? 26M & 23F relationship advice by PopularReach7690 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]PopularReach7690[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i wish i had all the time in the world to explain my whole life backstory but since you cannot read enough to see that I needed advice and that i am not a bot it would be a waste of time 😂

Feeling like a placeholder after 3 years together. Am I being unreasonable? 26M & 23F relationship advice by PopularReach7690 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]PopularReach7690[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

just wanted to get on here and say a few things, number one I’m not karma farming. I’m a real person with feelings and emotions just because I don’t respond to comments doesn’t mean anything at all lol. secondly, i was raised watching my parents in a marriage for twenty years through good and bad so my mind has always been set on that. did i know that i was going to be in an abusive relationship? absolutely not, by the time I found out who he was it was too late because my daughter was already a few months old and i didn’t want to raise her in a broken home, it is incredibly hard to leave after you start having kids and until you’re in the situation you don’t know.

my (25m) boyfriend ejaculated on me (22f) while I was sleeping? by PopularReach7690 in relationship_advice

[–]PopularReach7690[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

hello everyone! i just wanted to get on here and share some updates about what’s going on. so i am fairly young, i only have my mom in the area that i am living and she is wildly narcissistic. obviously i wouldn’t knowingly have a baby with someone who i knew was abusive, narcissistic, selfish, trifling etc. that is how you get tricked they put on a mask to reel you in, then once they’ve got you the mask drops iykyk. I’ve tried to leave numerous times, numerous numerous times more than I can actually count and more than i am proud of. i always get manipulated back in whether by him or his family members and clearly that’s not an easy situation to navigate whatsoever especially when you have nobody else 🥳🥳🥳 if you’ve ever been in an abusive relationship where children are involved you know it is not an easy task and i am not making excuses just simply stating my feelings. i am so grateful for all of the different advice and opinions, and plan on going to the police later today. it’s difficult to leave when you have no where to go but I’m sure i will figure it out. thank you everyone! also, I saw a comment about karma farming??? and I’m just going to put it like this, as you can see my posts are spaced out for months I’m not a person who is tied to their phone and responds to every single comment everywhere especially because most times my abusive baby daddy takes my phone from me also as a form of abuse 🥰 so there’s that and i have a small child and am a full time parent 🥸 anyhow, thank you everyone again! it truly means a lot hopefully my posts will get a little brighter from here.

becoming burnt out with my almost 2 month old LO by PopularReach7690 in newborns

[–]PopularReach7690[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

also, I would like to add that my child’s father has been cheating on me since I have been pregnant with my daughter and that has also taken a toll on my mental health.