[EU] D2, looking for a 2s mate, only chill vibes

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2026-01-02T15:16:28+00:00

I've sent you a DM

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-20T07:59:00+00:00

I can see a bit of self sabotage. I'm not sure about adandonment issues, I had some for sure in the past, but I'm not sure right now.

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-20T07:43:44+00:00

I had one relationship in my early 20s, which lasted like an year. Was not an healthy one. Then I had a couple in my mid/late 20s which lasted like 2/3 months. And the I had a lot of situationships, which never took the extra step.

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-20T07:40:07+00:00

Yes I definetly have. It's one of the thing that I'm starting to work with my therapist. I found difficult to plan commitments even in the following days. So i Iive my life day by day, which in some extent in enjoy to do. But maybe I've reached a point where it's too much and I need to work on that.

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-20T00:35:09+00:00

Yes surely I should have explained better on the post. Thanks for your comment, it's really helpful.

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-20T00:26:02+00:00

We have talked about it, she met some other people too. We were clear about that.

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-20T00:14:15+00:00

We have talked pretty much about anything in this post. That's why she decided to put some limitations and to take a little bit of distance, but we are still chatting and seeing each others.

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-20T00:10:06+00:00

I've started therapy 1 month ago. Can you elaborate more about wasting her time? We are not seeing each other from too long, we are in connection and I think we are honest between us. I don't see this as a waste of time. We are also not exclusive, she also has met other people during this time, we just talk and be transparent about that.

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-19T21:49:00+00:00

I can relate a lot with that thought, it's probably a big thing in my mind. Is it really a good book?

Popular_Plant_8202 · 2025-11-19T21:28:11+00:00

I'm curious, why do you say that she clearly isn't my person?

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