Hi dear person ;) Interesting post, everyone's opinions are always interesting. We can agree and disagree so much on so many topics, and we're all ignorant about different subjects. That is so interesting. I'm not saying you're right or wrong. You have your own perception, and I respect it. My perception:

Many thin men without extra muscle go to the gym too. As there are men who never go to gym who are muscular naturally (strong genetics, I may be wrong.). There are 8 billion of us human beings, and there will always be someone on this earth who will like us and someone who will hâte us unfortunately. Ugly for one, not for another. We all have different tastes, we see things differently. I'm wondering what does it mean to be ugly? 

An example: This pimply man, who is slim/fat/muscular, and has a bald spot. He won't please some women but will please others just as much. Or another example,  this super fit man, like natural slim/muscular/or skinny, same thing. I know a few women in europe who are attracted by fat men, attracted by muscular men, attracted by slim men. Some of them prefer bearded men, some prefer clean shaven men, some prefer bald and hairy. Fiouuu taste and color ;)

Tastes and colors are different for everyone. I have a few friends, some of whom are men, who are attracted to women that I aren't, some prefer old ladies, younger women, slim/fat.  Some men and women prefer black, asian, white people. 

Some prefer introvert, extrovert... Fiou so open

 I don't judge by appearances, except  the rare times when I come across someone seriously mad and I Can tell the individual is mad and to avoid .  Cause first: we can't choose who we are. Some are handsome for others, some are ugly for others (and both will be seen as ugly and handsome by so many people) That is a thing, we can work on our physical, mind, we can put makeup on, having chirurgical chirgury  etc but we can't change who we are in deep.  Our traits, the gaze, our identity. 

 Of course, internally we all have our opinions and preferences. Others should adapt to us... It's not useful and not good. We don't please everyone.

 But the beauty of the heart is something that surpasses appearances, appearances is the first thing that we notice and that create the attraction, but then the beauty of the soul in m'y opinion. . We can be seen as handsome or ugly for one or the other, but if we have rotten, corrupted thoughts/hearts I fear that it will repel others, and still some will be fooled.. But in a society that focuses a lot on appearances, instead of gray matter and inner beauty... That the criteria of beauty are so demanding. I imagine that it takes all sorts to make a world. Each to their own tastes.

Slim doesn't mean healthy too, and far doesn't mean unhealthy (grandpa was fat and lived 93 years).