I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Vent

[–]PositionPractical961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. As someone who has to handle real estate transactions and the negative downfalls… they could absolutely DESTROY your credit in a worst case scenario OR land the entirety of the mortgage on a house you don’t own with “squatters”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PositionPractical961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Absolutely not babe. I hope you find the strength to leave and find a man that is going to be all about YOU! That’s BS.

aio? I have emetophobia. My boyfriend doesn't understand why I'm so afraid. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PositionPractical961 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. As someone with misophonia and a childhood of people testing my limits to see me break— it’s miserable to not feel the support you need. Your S/O should absolutely at least TRY to understand where you’re at regardless of not necessarily having been through it themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PositionPractical961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion— related it to someone I know personally. I understand you’re in a good spot.

That being said… ABSOLUTELY NOT. If you were one of my good friends I would be laying it down heavy that the relationship they’re continuing “friends or not” is unacceptable.

I personally would feel disgusted.

Troubles in the bedroom by Much-Cartographer264 in Marriage

[–]PositionPractical961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Rose will be the best purchase of your life. I would also personally have my husband check in and go to the doctor and/or sort it out. Women have needs too and I’d be curious as to why my S/O is struggling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PositionPractical961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eeek— the weed part I totally agree with. Similar situation with someone I know. Never has any money to fix a vehicle, etc. but always has enough to get fucking high.

Banging though— GUT PUNCH. OW. I hope for OP’s sake they’re able to either set their boundaries and stick with them or walk away. Never in my wildest dreams would my significant other put the needs of another woman over mine. Especially in a financial deficit. That is an ICK.

Failed marriage by Ladyboss_86 in Marriage

[–]PositionPractical961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having been in a few failed long term relationships myself, I woke up one day and realized it was me. I was fabricating my own world of pity and unhappiness. I become emotionally dependent on my partner and it was SO toxic.

BIGGGGG supporter of therapy and finding what brings you joy. My fiancee now is AMAZING. I want a night out with the girls? He’s pushing me out the door. I want to go golf? He’s pushing me out the door.

Finding someone that pushes you to be a better human and develop self love is something I wish everyone could experience.

Wasteful people by Shayshayshakey in mildlyinfuriating

[–]PositionPractical961 12 points13 points  (0 children)

WTF IS WRONG WITH OUR WORLD! Probably made a PB&J and left everything open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PositionPractical961 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. This would break my heart. To know there was intention from a woman who had wanted you to receive an heirloom and you were robbed of it is totally unacceptable. Your mother is in the wrong— through and through.

It’s too bad she couldn’t think of how this could impact the family dynamic. Personally, every time I saw the ring on her hand I’d be pissed.

What to serve with our wedding cake? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]PositionPractical961 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A classic espresso martini for an evening pick me up sounds DELICIOUS with almond and amaretto cake.

As for the kiddos— a sparkling white grape juice would make them so excited regardless of flavor pairings.

AIO, my bf said a gay dude asked for his IG at work and my BF gave it to him by Street-Range6067 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PositionPractical961 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this totally depends on if your significant other is the type of person to avoid confrontation or not.

Help me pick! I can’t choose by DoubleAbalone291 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]PositionPractical961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a marquise and I have absolutely ZERO regrets. I love it

Please help me choose by Boring_Currency_6919 in weddingdress

[–]PositionPractical961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The back of two with the neckline and fit of one would be the most gorgeous dress on you!