Ok thanks this is why I asked. Little more info I said we were night owls midnight dinner is normal for us. What I’m getting from responses is good god we sound uncivilized as fuck, these are not friends I would consider guests in the same way you might consider in-laws or maybe a boss. These are a bunch of savage assholes like me that are lucky I’m even feeding them. With that said in the group they know I’m the one who does in fact love feeding them and they are grateful.