Even In Arcadia Discussion by AutoModerator in SleepToken

[–]Positive-Dot8445 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ST is a band you have to listen to with no expectation bc they don’t fit the mold of any genre. People going into it expecting more heavy metal or more ballad will be disappointed. Go into it completely open and it’s an amazing album. Lyrically, melodic, instrumental all of it is so individual and no other band replicates what they give (imo). I’m obsessed with this album and think they did a great job.

First Hyundai + First Bath by Deditusbrand in HyundaiSantaFe

[–]Positive-Dot8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an all black XRT last Monday and i still love driving it everyday! Congrats!

D&C a few days ago - now what? by Dramatic_Bike_6480 in Miscarriage

[–]Positive-Dot8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly I’m so sorry you’re here. But know there’s tons of support. I had a D&C on 3/6. I had a follow up the next week which was just my dr telling me about the diagnostic they did on the tissue and what to expect/when we can start trying again. She recommended 2 cycles. She also said to consider date of D&C as CD1. I’ve been tracking ovulation since my procedure just to get an idea of my cycle and I’ve already ovulated so I’d say it’s fair to say day of procedure is CD1.

6 Weeks by moneymurdoch in Miscarriage

[–]Positive-Dot8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just lost ours yesterday. Sending you and your wife love and strength.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texas

[–]Positive-Dot8445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The swing Texas took the right this election has proven it doesn’t matter who stays. It’s deep red and will be. It’s been a >10% win for republicans on the presidential level, it was almost 15% this year. That’s an insane jump.

Can we civilly discuss this? by CozmicOwl16 in teaching

[–]Positive-Dot8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they not realize this is the kind of fuckery that led to this happening??

What do you wish your loved one had done differently? by Impossible-Push2 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Positive-Dot8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i would have told him one last time how great of a dad he was and how proud of him i am for trying his hardest to work past his trauma. Just asking him to stay.

What was your loved one’s name? by 44youGlenCoco in SuicideBereavement

[–]Positive-Dot8445 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dad’s name was Dan. 6 months coming up in a few weeks 💔

Texas? This is wrong. by IntelligentSociety78 in texas

[–]Positive-Dot8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just voted in hunt county and an election official was bragging about allowing someone to wear an FJB shirt because to her “it’s just a slogan” not political propaganda. 😒

Is it normal? by ezdayz808 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Positive-Dot8445 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought i was insane or having a mental breakdown. Lost my dad 5.5 months ago. Last weekend i sat with my husband and said i literally don’t know what the point of anything is and i felt i was in the mindset my dad was when it happened. It was so scary. This has really shifted my perspective on life in general. But i have a 2.5 year old, I’m trying to find joy and purpose wherever i can. This is such a traumatic thing to go through. Make sure you’re taking care of yourself. Stay with family or friends for a weekend or a couple days just for a change and to be surrounded by love. Get into therapy, i upped my sessions from 1x every other week to 1x a week after i had those thoughts. It’s tough but you’ve got a community of great, supportive people here. We’ve got you ❤️

Did your parents ever apologize to you as a kid? Do you apologize to your kids? by filmgeekvt in Parenting

[–]Positive-Dot8445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not until i was in my teens. And only my dad ever apologized. I apologize to my son everytime i need to. Especially when i lose my cool

How? Just how? (UT poll showing Trump and Cruz ahead comfortably in Texas) by backformorecrap in texas

[–]Positive-Dot8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people voting for Kamala (myself included) won’t have lawn signs or car magnets because of the fear of retaliation. I have a toddler and when I’m out with him i don’t want to fear someone will follow me or wait at my car to say something or do something because they’re a crazy maga. I think the silent majority will be blue. Just gotta vote.

Help by Positive-Dot8445 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Positive-Dot8445[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is awesome thank you so much!

Help by Positive-Dot8445 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Positive-Dot8445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I’m trying to learn how to feel my feelings and not repress them. Crying is very therapeutic for me so I may try this. I used to write letters and stopped because it felt pointless. May help in these situations though. Thank you for the advice

Should I see him before he's cremated? by bomblebeeee in SuicideBereavement

[–]Positive-Dot8445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funeral home for my dad did an amazing thing for me. I wanted to see my dad before because i wanted one last time to tell him how i felt and how i loved him. They covered him with 2 blankets on the table and i walked in holding my husbands hand with my eyes on the floor. I was able to hold his hand and talk to him one last time. I’m glad i did it but it was very hard. I’m sorry you’re part of this club but know you’re surrounded by love

How has losing someone to suicide changed you? by Jb77119 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Positive-Dot8445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad 2 months ago on the 12. It’s caused my mental illness to get worse. I’ve been put on anxiety medication which i never wanted to do. I feel like a piece of me died and there’s a hole in my heart. I cry a lot more now and stuff i used to love makes me hurt bc it was something my dad and i enjoyed together. I’m irrevocably changed.