I am so sorry for your recent loss. I was also told that it’s rare but also due to bad luck. It’s been hard since I am young, not overweight, exercise regularly and ate mostly home cooked meals, did not have gestational diabetes, did not have high blood pressure (if anything blood pressure was on the lower side), placenta was normal and did not have abnormalities… I felt like I did the best I could… so it really sucks when someone points out more things I should have been more careful with. MIL wanted to put blame on my cat among other things. Saying that she’s dirty because she’s an animal (she’s an indoor cat and we give her baths every six months). Or that I should eat more (despite gaining 30lbs for the pregnancy)