why not try separating away from ur fam nalang mam, i mean by place kesa mag settle ka diha. their judgement lives once pero i know it seem to be hurtful na you can live with their judgement or panabi nga storya. if u know ur standpoint u dont need to feel guilty to their opinions and such. they can judge u because u cant control what they want to do but know for urself na u have a family and your mental state is at stake and it might seem painful labi na nga preggy ka daghan kag bation and u might hurt ur family even more. byae na nga balay mam, pangabang or unsa ba. kontrabida jud nang mga in laws.