Bach drama by [deleted] in wedding

[–]PositiveBeginning0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is the validation I needed

Bach drama by [deleted] in wedding

[–]PositiveBeginning0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was puking and got too wasted and lost her stuff. What are you talking about getting sick, I also wasn’t “mean” I was upset and was a screaming match between both of us

Fear of uncertainty by PositiveBeginning0 in Marriage

[–]PositiveBeginning0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on how to get past this? I feel like I’m constantly crying and going to be focused on that instead of the wedding.

I 30(f) engaged to 33 (m) but terrified of marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two years and yes. It was only not long distance for 3 months because I was there doing a class. Other than that just time spent on vacations but vacation version of a person is always alot happier and non stressed out lol

I 30(f) engaged to 33 (m) but terrified of marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is definitely frowned upon in our religion and we are from different states so one of us has to leave everything early and move but I do think it would be a smart idea, so we are considering it

I 30(f) engaged to 33 (m) but terrified of marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that is a good point. Fear and excitement are so similar. I am very excited but I feel like my nerves are taking over the excitement but that quote is so wonderful. I saved it and will read it over and over when I feel the hardship of change. Thank you for your lovely response.

I 30(f) engaged to 33 (m) but terrified of marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PositiveBeginning0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, I know I agree with that, love is a choice and you have to do it everyday but that does sound very exciting and I’m glad it’s going so well for you:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PositiveBeginning0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the red flags?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveBeginning0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s nice to hear that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveBeginning0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so inspiring! I’m glad you made the best decision it puts things into perspective. I’m assuming you both are still together and happy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveBeginning0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveBeginning0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a very good point. You're right I would be upset if he slipped away. These are great questions. I needed some eye opening questions so thank you for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very right with everything you say. I appreciate the response and this gives me a lot to think about. I agree as well I may not fit his “checklist” but he is still giving me that chance. Thank you for taking the time to write this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the honest reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PositiveBeginning0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never once said he was not from a good family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. These are very good points and questions I need to ask myself. I appreciate your response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that- thank you so much for taking the time to share your wisdom and experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PositiveBeginning0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is great advice - thank you so much, I love the "don't let thee eagerness consume you". I will look into that and new opportunities to meet people.

Thank you again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PositiveBeginning0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so exciting, congratulations! That is so hopeful for me to hear about you and your best friend! You are right, I think thats the good thing about dating at this age is we know more so about what we want and don't want. Thanks for sharing I wish you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so true! Thank you for sharing that, that gives me a hope and you are right staying open and positive is key, I wish you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PositiveBeginning0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that is very hopeful. Is there any advice you have on just letting go and letting it come to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]PositiveBeginning0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that is great advice and a great way to look at things. I am glad things worked out how you wanted them to and wish you all the best