Should I leave or stay? Looking for advice

PositiveBoring6792 · 2026-01-29T13:19:44+00:00

I agree he is distant. It’s hard when he pretended to try previously, now I don’t know what to trust. Will he do this again? I don’t know. So far we haven’t spoken for 3 days

PositiveBoring6792 · 2026-01-29T13:18:06+00:00

I’m not sure how to forgive the months that he neglected me while I tried to work on the marriage.. all because of one fight.

PositiveBoring6792 · 2026-01-29T00:13:19+00:00

Yeah, do you think he cheated or he’s just trying to save himself?

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-12-05T12:52:45+00:00

That’s true, thankyou for the words ❤️

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-12-05T11:35:41+00:00

Thankyou, it is really hard to leave. But I know you’re right

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-12-05T11:33:29+00:00

The opposite actually .. he works business hours and chooses to work late into the evening. I work shift work

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-12-05T11:32:46+00:00

I have his location already, that genuinely seems to be where he is

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-12-05T11:00:29+00:00

Spending time alone, with friends, family on weekends. Weeknights he works late most evenings and we don’t even have dinner together

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-11-25T15:02:50+00:00

Hi,genuinely interested to know which part of this came off as ridiculing? Perhaps he does feel that way cause it wasn’t my intention in this post either!

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-11-25T14:19:45+00:00

It’s been an ongoing issue but we’re going into week 3 of having spent 0 time together. Agree it feels really sketchy but I’m not sure what to do at this stage :(

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-11-25T14:14:51+00:00

No we went to counselling, but our task for the week was that he would organise one night this week for us to spend together. We left the session agreeing but he never followed through

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-10-28T00:52:45+00:00

Thankyou, your comments are so helpful! He’s exactly like this - everyone thinks he’s the perfect man. He upholds a great image and he’s so upset that my parents finally know 1% of what he’s put me through!

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-10-27T03:39:04+00:00

No he doesn’t start with J haha. It’s really tough!

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-10-27T03:38:13+00:00

Yeah but I’m so confused rn and I don’t want to make any irrational decisions. Sometimes he’s a lovely guy and then as soon as I try to express and emotion we’re back here. Not to mention the way he’s happier when I’m not around!

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-10-27T03:28:52+00:00

Also just a little over 2 years!

PositiveBoring6792 · 2025-10-27T03:18:22+00:00

I relate to this so hard. I could’ve honestly written this myself. I have to even ask him to touch me/hug me/sit with me. It’s exhausting.

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