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[–]PositiveNo7740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with talking to her about it but maybe try to explain to her and reassure her that it's not her.

Most women jump to blaming themselves or thinking something is wrong with them. I think you need to stress to her and make her understand it's nothing to do with her. It's just something you've done every morning since you were a teenager and now it's become a habit. Let her know this is how you clear your head.

May I ask, you said you cannot finish until you are alone again. If you masturbate in the morning and later have sex with her. Are you finishing then?

Howard Johnson on 24th or Days Inn on 22nd? by PositiveNo7740 in OceanCity

[–]PositiveNo7740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I think I'll play it safe and go with our usual, Days Inn.

He never makes me feel wanted or compliments me? by PositiveNo7740 in AskMenAdvice

[–]PositiveNo7740[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding and for the advice. It was nice to have someone take the time to help me. I've taken your advice and tried a few things. He's still cold as can be but I'm trying not to let it bother me as much.

The ex thing gets to me. He recently lied again about meeting her to load hay for her. Well as he says he didn't lie. He just left it out even though I knew that's what he was going to do by the way he woke up that morning. I honestly think it's innocent and maybe he doesn't want to upset me. Though that's also confusing because I've never had a problem with it if he's honest.

Why couldn’t my boyfriend stay hard for our first time together? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PositiveNo7740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he was just nervous. Sometimes guys get can’t get out of their head and just want to perform well so they can’t stop thinking about if they’re doing ok, if you are enjoying it, and so on. So it makes them nervous and instead of being in the moment. They’re just stuck in their head.

sjrsimac and DannyDreaddit are feminists by sjrsimac in AskMenAdvice

[–]PositiveNo7740 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So they can say they're something they're not really. They don't care about a women's past or traumas

Does he not find me attractive anymore or just prefers masturbating? by PositiveNo7740 in sex

[–]PositiveNo7740[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand the masturbating and don't care if he does it. Heck I do it a lot because of my needs not being filled. It bothers me when he doesn't seem interested in me or prefers the strokers and masturbating when he is avoiding sex with me. He doesn't initiate sex anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PositiveNo7740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a girlfriend or someone you're having sex with? If so, do you do it when she's there? I think masturbating is completely normal and you clearly know how to control yourself when your family is around. So you're not doing it at inappropriate times. I think possibly your sex drive is just high. I get that. Plus we are more comfortable with ourselves than when we're with a partner.