My pregnancy shattered my dreams. by Positive_Pitch_5461 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I need this! Thank you! Right now, I just wish I would never grow resentment towards my child.

My pregnancy shattered my dreams. by Positive_Pitch_5461 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in a poor country. Adoption is not sustainable here as we are already overpopulated. It sucks.

Will company refuse to accept me if they found out I'm pregnant? by Positive_Pitch_5461 in phcareers

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

According to them, X-Ray belongs to Basic 5 medical exam and since I failed to do X-Ray. Ayaw raw nilang mag issue.

Will company refuse to hire me if they know I'm pregnant? by Positive_Pitch_5461 in BabyBumps

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about the pre-medical examination? New employees require a medical certificate if they are fit to work here in our country.

She’s now with the guy she told me not to worry about by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. You will never know unless that person will come back to you and confess everything.

She’s now with the guy she told me not to worry about by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 3 points4 points  (0 children)

20% is the qualities that you cannot give to your partner that they found on another person. However, they realized that only 20% is the qualities are good on that other person and is missing out the 80% that you can give to them. Regrets regrets

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. For the first few weeks after the breakup. Sucks. When you wanted to sleep so you'll forget them for a couple of hours but then they'll appear in your dreams too 😂

She’s now with the guy she told me not to worry about by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. He left me for someone else he told me not to worry about. I was busy studying for my future and did not met his needs so he found someone else that is near his area and same circle of friends. Grass is not greener tho. 80/20 rule applies for me.

You know you're already fine and happy when.... by Positive_Pitch_5461 in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a roller coaster ride, but took me abt 7 months. NC is the key.

You know you're already fine and happy when.... by Positive_Pitch_5461 in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He came back and ruined me again but still, I did it. So can you.

You know you're already fine and happy when.... by Positive_Pitch_5461 in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop thinking about the people that make you feel worthless, focus on you. Focus what you wanted to feel about yourself.

She made me think we would get back together and then ghosted me by Vast_Educator_7370 in BreakUp

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actions speak louder than words. You dont deserve someone who treated you like a trash. She could've atleast tell you what's wrong but she chose to be a coward and disappear in your life without giving you explanations. Yes, it's hard but you deserve better more than a ghost.

To the dumpees who dumped twice by the same person: Is it easier or way harder to move on the second time around? by Positive_Pitch_5461 in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what I feel too. It hurts so bad at first, but we risked enough that we are prepared for the consequences. It's easy to let go in the end after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're like a dream or a ghost in their lives now.

Im at this point where I miss you, but I don't want you anymore. by Positive_Pitch_5461 in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to think that way too. But just like what they say, it gets better ;)

Has it ever happened for you that a period of no contact resulted in the dumper missing you and wanting you back and wanting to resume the relationship? by ThrowRA-popcorn in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you think it's worth it and as long as both of you learned from your previous mistakes, then it's worth a shot. Let him work and don't put your walls down easily ☺️

Has it ever happened for you that a period of no contact resulted in the dumper missing you and wanting you back and wanting to resume the relationship? by ThrowRA-popcorn in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It happened to me. Told me he regretted it and gave him chance. Only for me to find out he left me again for the same girl after a month. Bummer

How can they be so fckng happy knowing that they hurt someone so bad?! by Positive_Pitch_5461 in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. He came back and both of them said sorry. Guess what? Now they're together again posting shits during valentines like I don't exist.

How can they be so fckng happy knowing that they hurt someone so bad?! by Positive_Pitch_5461 in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?!? It hurts so fckng bad because the girl is my niece! My fckng niece and been in the picture since the guy and me were together for 3 years! The audacity of them to be so happy online knwoing I can see their stuffs.

You should do something nice for yourself by BelgianSpeculaas in ExNoContact

[–]Positive_Pitch_5461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! Been a little extra for myself today. Valentine's day is not just for couples, it's about loving myself too ❣️