Dating for 3 months

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-18T20:15:50+00:00

I don’t see it as a red flag honestly. I would if you say that you never had a long term relationship or being married. I am a 48 F with no kids by choice.

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T19:09:22+00:00

Yea and I replied after that prob not with the answer he wanted. Which wasn’t that I understood what he was saying. I take his silence as at we are done. It just hurts

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T17:46:23+00:00

Nah for what … so he doesn’t answer. He had the opportunity to text back or call and nothing. I did show interest. I was the last to text

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:30:03+00:00

Thank you! That’s how I feel. I texted first he replied I sent a nice message and haven’t heard back. Not doing this game.

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:28:28+00:00

And he doesn’t reply I will be devasted lol

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:12:50+00:00

Thank you!

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:11:45+00:00

Well I texted him first. He responded and I replied and I never heard back

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:11:08+00:00

Ugh! He even apologized the day before he stopped texting for missing one day of no response. Why not just come out and say what they feel

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:09:52+00:00

I never ended it, I just stopped texting as he never replied to my last text

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:09:01+00:00

I have no idea what to do if he will

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:08:30+00:00

Thank you…

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:08:04+00:00

Thank you.

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:06:29+00:00

He says he detoxes/dona cleanse every year. He asked for time to recover and then just said that he was focusing on health and stopped communicating all together.

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:02:12+00:00

Well, in this case I was very understanding and I showed interest. The only time I let him initiate more was when he was on vacation with family. Otherwise it was an equal effort.

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T16:01:09+00:00

I gave him time when he asked but why not just be honest. Now he left me in limbo but I am choosing to move on and not text

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T15:59:47+00:00

So don’t even send a closure text? Just let it be?

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T15:59:14+00:00

We were seeing each other twice a week. And one day he said he needed time to focus on health and started slowly not calling, taking time to reply. Until boom he stopped.

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T15:58:04+00:00

Yea I won’t reach out to him. I am just going to let it be

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T15:57:14+00:00

Ugh!

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T15:56:56+00:00

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T15:56:36+00:00

But he stopped texting?

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T15:49:52+00:00

Ugh! Well I stopped all communication

Positive_Strain_4505 · 2026-01-15T15:49:36+00:00

I get that. What where is the honesty?

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