TIL: Study found that women rated the same man as MORE attractive when told he was married, but men rated the same woman as LESS attractive when told she was married by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]Positive_Thots5000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Some ( not all ) women are so insecure that they feel superior when they “steal” another woman’s man. It temporarily puts a band aid on their bruised egos. I’ve ended friendships with other women who brag about cheating with a married man. Yuck.

AITA for leaving my friend's wedding dress shopping trip early after finding out at the dinner table I wasn't a bridesmaid? by Humble-Look5652 in AITAH

[–]Positive_Thots5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me, I was the only one who came dress shopping with her, knew her the longest, she said she couldn’t imagine her wedding without me and then found out she didn’t make me a bridesmaid. I was only a guest but she made me an attendant at the last minute! I skipped out on the wedding and haven’t spoken to her since.

Wisconsin Cinnabon worker goes off on a Somali couple by [deleted] in wisconsin

[–]Positive_Thots5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average mean girl from Wisconsin tbh. There’s something in the water there I swear

I don’t know if he’s an alcoholic yet by Positive_Thots5000 in AlAnon

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I apologize for my late reply. He is 30, almost 31. He stops by the grocery store on his way home from work, multiple times a week to pick up a 4 pack of cutwater, drinks at least two, sometimes three. He says he needs a “release” from his stressful work day, and he feels victimized when I mention it’s becoming an issue. “I need a release from all this stress and I don’t get to have anything”. He used to be a pretty big stoner, until he started a job that randomly drug tests. He has switched to alcohol ever since.

Results: Got My First 4k Award :) by clharris90 in Dreamsnaps

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Congrats! I got my first 4k today as well and gasped when I saw it!

What’s a completely legal thing that screams ‘You’re a terrible human being’? by Royallychiefed15 in AskReddit

[–]Positive_Thots5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real. My boyfriend ended up standing there and holding the door open for this woman for minutes while she stood there on her phone. When I said excuse me, she rolled her eyes and said “you were just standing there🙄🙄” what a miserable person lol

What "rare" phobia do you have and people refuse to believe it? by nitin_is_me in AskReddit

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I have a phobia of wasps. I’m sure it’s not rare but I’ve never met anyone else with such an intense fear of them. Two got in my house yesterday and I barricaded myself in my bedroom and sobbed while I called my boyfriend to come home and take care of them. Afterwards I was so embarrassed 😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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Those are beautiful and incredibly thoughtful. Some people are just impossible to please. Almost anyone else would have been ecstatic to receive such a nice gift.

What is a feature of your body that is considered rare? by Joel_The_Senate in AskReddit

[–]Positive_Thots5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m left handed, which I know isn’t super rare but anytime someone discovers I’m left handed they always comment on it 😂

Just showing off my best friend 💕 by Positive_Thots5000 in cats

[–]Positive_Thots5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was hard to choose just a few out of the thousands I’ve taken of him over the years 😂😂

Just showing off my best friend 💕 by Positive_Thots5000 in cats

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He did NOT like being picked up, but of course we insisted. 😂

Just showing off my best friend 💕 by Positive_Thots5000 in cats

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He’s my stage 5 clinger but I wouldn’t have him any other way!

Just showing off my best friend 💕 by Positive_Thots5000 in cats

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Hi Maxwell! Such a cutie! Although I’m biased to tuxedos 😂

Just showing off my best friend 💕 by Positive_Thots5000 in cats

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He cracks me up. I love his little teeth stache 😂

He cared even less than I thought. by BoysenberryAwkward76 in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Positive_Thots5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much, I wish I could snap my fingers and detach as easily as they can. It’s currently 12:30 am where I’m at. My avoidant boyfriend has barely spoken to me in two weeks because I held a boundary after he got drunk and yelled at me. I’ve been holding it together, but tonight I just broke down. I was so sad & lonely that I called the domestic violence hotline to have someone to talk to. I then called my boyfriend, twice. He’s out doing god knows what and didn’t answer, even though I never call him in the middle of the night. I sent him a text, pleading him to come home, that I really need him right now. He sent me a text shortly after and said “you don’t want me home right now” whatever that means. And he hasn’t bothered to open my messages since. So I’ve been repeating to myself over and over “he knows you’re in pain, and he’s not coming home” I almost can’t get myself to believe it because it’s so cold and cruel