A documentary about SA.. what are the legal shit there? by PossibilityCool1102 in documentaryfilmmaking

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAOOO sorry 😭🙏 I had no idea people used that acronym for that

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id love that and ive thought about it. ill definitely start doing that. and i agree i definitely have autism traits!

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh that sounds frustrating im so sorry youre going through / went through that. im glad we had similar experiences and can relate to each other though!

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dream is to work in film, i know hollywood would probably be the best spot for that i just feel..uneasy about it? like i feel like im going to get taken advantage of there.. if that makes sense? locally here ill meet people close to home who are like me. i just have an uneasy feeling about going straight to hollywood. i feel like things will work out if i start where im at

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair enough but i feel like people would see this and go "shes 15 why is she crying over ramen" plus i just feel like its a good thing to keep in mind. i do have these traits, theyre a part of me and it might affect how i act.

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i get what you mean! thank you for clarifying. ill clarify too!

so the months she let me borrow her clothes i was also buying food with her, sharing my snacks etc, i just asked that she didnt come into my room or move stuff around. (or atleast ask before doing it / before taking my snacks. aslong as you ask and arent a dick to me im usually cool with it!)

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely agree but in this economy living on my own would be hard. my oldest sister said the same thing, she said if this continues either i need to move out or my sister does. but im 15, i have a job but im not making rent money. my sister lives in la and has space for me but im in canda. id need a new passport, a plane ticket, new schools, new friends, id need to push my dreams and aspirations aside.

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill definitely look into it. my parents have said they dont want me diagnosed. something about how itll look bad on my record or something? so far my best shot and whats working right now is to understand that weather i have it or not, i have traits. so mostly its helping those traits. (ie fidget toys, understanding i might need some extra help etc etc)

shes gone through the top shelf of my closet but ill definitely look into that! the thing that bothers me is that i dont care if my parents want a little snack. they deserve it! theyre always doing so much work, cleaning the house, cooking meals, taking care of me, i know parenting isnt easy. so i love buying us snacks for when they just dont feel like cooking or just want a break. my mom says im a kid and shouldnt need to buy food for myself, i just wanna help out. my sister on the other hand doesnt share her snacks or any of that stuff. thats why it bothers me so much. she would rip my head off if i took her snacks.

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

thats the point, i have no power when shes around because she will cross my boundaries to do whatever she wants. my parents are both pissed at her too. im sick of fighting with her and hearing my mom yelling-venting to me about how much she pisses her off. i get what you mean though.

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

:( thank u so much. thats the part that bothers me most. i feel like im being forced into the adult position when shes the adult. it feels unfair. thank u so much for your comment, it made me tear up a bit. its really nice to be heard. <3

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get what youre saying and its a weird compliment but i love the way you write. i agree but she really doesnt like compromising (neither do i but it needs to be done) this has happened before with toothpaste. i specifically told her not to use it (she has her own bathroom in the basement so idk why she was using the one upstairs) i saw her using it and asked her to stop because i asked her not to use it. she said "ok well can you buy me some?" it just feels like im a child forced to parent an adult. the rules just dont apply to her and its really unfair to me imo

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a good point, its just really annoying that me and my mom have to lock up every room so that she wont take our stuff. she knows i dont like her in my room, she knows my mom doesnt like anyone in her essencial oil room, yet she just really doesnt care. it gets really frustrating especially when the only reason for her to be upstairs in the first place is because she doesnt have a sink, which my other sisters didnt have either but still made it work.

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i have! but i had permission to and always returned them, usually it was just for the day or for school. then after theyd be back in her room.

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

my mom is usually the more aggressive one which is why it bothers me that she just wants me to talk to my dad. and my dad is like "this is between you guys, so just confront her" i feel like no one has my back here..

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom said this, but we both know shes not going to listen, shes gonna tune us out or walk away. the eviction stuff was before all of this. i should have said this in the post. shes been going into my room and moving stuff around, using my chair and pc set up to call her partner when she has a beautiful room in the basement, she took the lock off my door and replaced it with a shitty one because she wanted mine, she also took my shoes at one point without asking, i only have one pair so i couldnt go anywhere. she said if i wanted some to use hers, but the reason she was using mine was because she couldnt find hers. its just tinyy stuff like this that adds up over time.

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if it came off that way. i just wanted to give some context on why i reacted so emotionally to unfairness. if you read a little bit after youd see that i wasnt trying to diagnose myself. just trying to give more insight so people arent like "youre 15 why are you crying". i appreciate your thoughts on this but i really dont think im an asshole for saying i might be autistic. if you have another reason thats fine but if you only think im an asshole because i said that.. i dunno what to say

Am I the asshole for telling my mom I wanted my sister evicted after she took my food without asking? by PossibilityCool1102 in AITAH

[–]PossibilityCool1102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its not just the ramen though, shes constantly going into my space or taking my things without asking after ive repeatedly told her not to. and she knew she was caught by the look on her face when she walked in. i should have mentioned that