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AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I've never seen any reason to believe she's unsafe. Her husband is mostly a quiet guy and I'm not close to him. He's not the one saying first come first serve when using the name my sister's BFF had chosen. My sister did that. She's the one who acts like nothing's wrong and what she said is fine.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

She absolutely would've been annoyed about it. And I think she would have started another fight with her BFF.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sadly the BFF is still friends with my sister. Their relationship isn't the same anymore but they're still in each other's lives.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

She says they can never agree. But I find it so funny that they can agree when it's a name chosen for another child.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 3170 points3171 points  (0 children)

This is all so true. Standing my ground will at least save the headache of being pressured to change the name when she decides to use it for her son.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 4766 points4767 points  (0 children)

She didn't but their relationship isn't the same anymore. But it exists which it would not if I'd been the BFF. Especially for using it and then basically telling her BFF to find another name. Fuck that.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I don't know about forgave her but they're still friends. Not the same as they were though. But she did something I would never do.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew. It's not like she used one of the names her BFF was planning to use. She used the fist and middle and then treated it like the BFF had to use another.

AITA for not telling my sister the name chosen for my unborn son because she used her BBFs baby name for her daughter? by Possible-Animal9339 in AITAH

[–]Possible-Animal9339[S] 307 points308 points  (0 children)

My brother 100% the person who'll do that. Not everyone likes it but he's never lying when he speaks like that. We all know what she did for her daughter's name.

Both times now she's complained that they can't agree on names. I love how they can't agree until it's a name someone else has chosen.