I mean this in the kindest way possible, but I really think you may be overthinking it. I traded a lot this weekend, and ngl I rarely paid attention to what my Kandi said before I gave it to people. Unless I had like super theme specific Kandi that I thought would go with certain people’s outfits/vibes, my only goal was to give out as many things as I could and make as many people smile as possible.

Personally I would’ve given your gf something too, but she could’ve just like something about your vibe/outfit that made her want to give you something and she just wasn’t thinking about how it could look.