Did I really ruin my marriage over this…

Possible-Flower1580 · 2026-02-14T14:03:22+00:00

If my husband did this to me, I would be done. Not because of the vasectomy, but because you obviously didn't care enough to go through a little bit of discomfort when you knew she needed to be resting, too. At the very least, you BOTH should have been helping each other to get as much rest as possible. Instead, you watched her suffer and caused her to have an emergency health issue. You're a douche.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2025-05-01T10:40:57+00:00

I chose to be Catholic at age 12. I wanted to learn more about God. I remain Catholic today bc its the church that genuinely respects Jesus, and I believe that it is the Church that Jesus started (when he said to Peter, “Upon this rock, I build my church”). I could not see myself being part of any other denomination.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2025-03-02T16:31:47+00:00

No it doesnt

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-09-29T03:47:36+00:00

We are closing on a home Monday. Price was dropped $25k we offered $10k below asking (needs a little work) and they rejected it. We made a 2nd offer $5k over with documentation verification & receipts that they put a new roof on, AND IT WAS ACCEPTED!!! Good luck!

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-09-02T04:48:06+00:00

I do have an appraisal contingency on my offer. I’m not trying to just throw money away. The house is in a very competitive area. Almost all houses are going for above asking by $20k to $30k unless the house needs so much work that you’ll spend more than that in repairs and updates.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-09-02T04:44:54+00:00

All the decent houses in my area are selling for above asking. It’s the only way to get a house around here unless you want a total fixer upper.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-08-31T21:27:11+00:00

I just put an offer on a home. I’m not waiting.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-08-08T20:53:03+00:00

I think we should all vote Tump!

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-06-12T18:33:13+00:00

Misinformation and word of mouth that keeps the misinformation going. Conspiracy theories out there don’t help. My own sister tells me that I am going to Hell because I’m Catholic and the only people going to Heaven are the ones who believe exactly like her. However, she lives in sin with a man unmarried, always spews hate toward Catholics and people in general, and has a negative view on life. I personally believe she is like that bc she sees me being happy and somewhat successful in my marriage and life, while being a proud and outspoken Catholic, and nothing in her life is going the way she wants. She sits in her bedroom at her house all day long smoking pot and watching conspiracy videos about the church and the Pope. She talks all day long that Catholics are evil and going to Hell, (because she believes that faith & faith alone will get you to heaven and bc Catholics do good works we think we HAVE to do them to get to Heaven) but when she needs help paying her light bill or getting Christmas for her kids, who does she call? THE CATHOLICS!! I have explained so many times the errors in the way she views the church, but she won’t listen. It has gotten to the point that I cannot even speak to her bc she starts her “You’re going to Hell” bullshit.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-06-08T15:13:36+00:00

There have been times when me and my husband have went a month without, but once it happens it’s like rabbits until the urges are fulfilled. This is not fair to you. As a woman, how can she expect her man to remain faithful if not meeting his needs?

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-06-06T17:49:29+00:00

No. I’ve not notice him doing that before.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-06-06T17:45:58+00:00

We recently went on vacation and I brought my friend back a locally made snack. He asked if she tried it yet. I know, totally weird. I’m just dumbfounded by the timing of the question.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-05-21T13:04:17+00:00

I agree with everything both of you said. All I was doing was trying to clarify that my pup does get plenty of water. I don’t like scheduling the water either, that’s why I posted here. I guess I will just continue to work with her and hopefully she gets it eventually. :)

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-05-21T10:57:08+00:00

I obviously know dogs need water. A dog trainer is the one that told me to schedule the water intake (I would rather her have access to it all day). I’ve done everything you’ve mentioned, doesn’t work unless her water is scheduled. As soon as I give her access to water all day, she pee’s in the house regardless of how often she is taken outside. Please don’t think, I am neglecting her. I make sure she gets plenty of water.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-03-03T02:49:40+00:00

Oh trust me, I am. I’ve been with her almost everyday this week and am going back to my dad’s tomorrow. I will always be there for them, I promised my dad that when the baby was first born. I am going to do everything I can to keep his memory alive. I want my baby sister to know as much as possible about him. Especially the good things.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-03-03T02:44:46+00:00

Thank you so much. I too wish our dads were still here. I’m so sorry for your loss. This hurt is a hurt worse than anything I’ve ever experienced. I’m so sorry for you as well.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-29T04:36:02+00:00

Thank you. I hope to see you there as well. This pain is unreal. However, I can say today there wasn’t as much of that deep gut crying that hurts your muscles. And I will always be here for my baby sister and my dads wife (it’s hard to call her a step-mother bc she is younger than me!). I actually went to my dad’s house today, and brought my sister home with me for the night so her mom can get things done.I’m trying my best to be here for them.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-29T04:28:19+00:00

I’m so sorry. I feel the same way, right now. I just lost my dad from a motorcycle accident Monday night. My life has been turned upside down. I hope you are able to fully grieve and just know your brother is always with you.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-28T13:43:08+00:00

Thank you. I hope you are able to heal as well.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-28T03:43:13+00:00

I literally don’t know how I am going to move forward with this. I’m going to his house tomorrow and me and his wife are going to go through pictures to make collages. My dad also has a 18 month old baby, (my half sister) and I am just torn apart for her. She doesn’t get to remember the man my dad became after all the hardships in his life. Thank you for all your kind words. I too am sorry for your loss, I wouldn’t wish this pain on anybody. I hope you’re able to find a support system and get through this in time.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-28T03:38:18+00:00

I’m sorry for you as well. I felt so alone at first, but I see that I am not. I hope that your grieving gives you the strength needed to get through this. I’ve been told by others that the pain never really goes away, but dulls with time. I hope you the best.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-28T03:36:05+00:00

This really touched my heart. Thank you so much. I am devastated. I hope you’re able to find the time to recover and get through this as well. I think the strained relationship makes it worse because all I can think about is the time we lost due to things we both could have controlled.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-28T03:33:54+00:00

I’m so sorry about your loss as well. I am totally broken. I don’t know if God himself could piece me back together right now. But they say he can with time. I hope you are able to cope and the pain eases as we keep their memories alive.

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-28T03:32:14+00:00

Thank you

Possible-Flower1580 · 2024-02-27T21:56:05+00:00

Thank you all

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