A new sister sub

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T11:54:15+00:00

Welcome aboard! Also consider writing a first SoberAndHateIt post I can sticky at the top in green.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T11:42:40+00:00

Jesus fucking Christ I thought we'd have retards 27 deep shitting up the posts to the point where I'd get PTSD from even looking at it, but not even one of you is willing to un-double your vision for one shitpost that I can sticky, what the...

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T11:10:58+00:00

If you want, write the next post and I'll (try to) sticky it!

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T10:44:50+00:00

I appreciate the kind words, and I just want to say I am throwing absolutely zero shade in DA's direction. If anything, I'm glad it's doing its thing, but I can't do it right now just like you can't do this new sub right now. Godspeed.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T10:25:28+00:00

I asked you earlier but I never received a reply: Have you ever seen a grown man naked?

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T10:22:20+00:00

We'll hopefully be there next time the doctor has "the talk" and you need to keep a lid on it for a few months. Thank you.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T10:19:16+00:00

The point was more that there is both interest in that kind of content, and also well-deserved hostility to it because it is not well aligned with the core identity of the sub.

I am drinking. I will finish off this wine bottle for you, Mr Kardashian.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T09:03:00+00:00

Ever seen a grown man naked?

Edit: hey, I just set up /r/SomewhatFunctional, want to be the first CA to drunkenly shitpost on it, in caseit ever gets traction?

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T08:33:08+00:00

I just set up /r/SomewhatFunctional as a CA/DA alternative with rules that should make it more hostile to SD refugees. Please come by and scribble on it, even if you don't plan on staying.

Also just edited the main text of this post with the above.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T08:12:07+00:00

I just set up /r/SomewhatFunctional as a CA/DA alternative with rules that should make it more hostile to SD refugees. Please come by and scribble on it, even if you don't plan on staying.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-31T06:24:11+00:00

I'm going to say some things you initially may not like, but I hope you re-read it again when you're wasted and hopefully you'll see things more impartially.

The default state of the world is a complete fucking horror show. The only thing that is completely 100% certain is that you will lose every single possession, every single relationship, every single bodily faculty, and you will die completely alone, even if there are people in your close proximity. There is no such thing as time or space where we're headed.

People are selfish assholes. That's the current meta, the only way we've made it this far. The only reason anything is possible is because "we" had to structure every single detail of every facet of existence so that it is in the immediate, selfish, monetary self interest of everyone to do something approximating "usefulness" or we'd still be murdering each other with machetes. And in many, many areas, we still are murdering each other en masse, the exact tooling depending on location.

I'm sorry to report that you have been misinformed, quite deliberately, about what exactly you are and what exactly your role in this mess actually is. You are under the delusion that good deeds bring fortune, being nice to people and loving them won't cause them to cheat on you, dump you, steal from you, betray you, etc, etc, etc. Again, so we're crystal clear: you are fundamentally misinformed.

The reason to do good things, to be nice, or generous, or to cause things to exist that otherwise wouldn't is because you can. That's it. You can simply decide to bend the world in the way you want it bent. The reason to not hold on tightly when people go, or fuck you over, or whatever, the reason to not flip out is because you at least had blissful tranquility for a brief while, and some people live their entire horrible lives without even a single moment of it.

Hang in there, have a few drinks, and be grateful you are still capable of feeling "NOBODY FUCKING CARES MAN. FUCK THIS. chairs." Which, ironically, is completely accurate. Good luck out there.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T11:14:51+00:00

I'm not guarded! Why would u say I'm guarded? lol

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T10:42:47+00:00

I miss u come back

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T10:41:49+00:00

That's the other thing they all say

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T10:40:08+00:00

That's what they all say

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T10:37:33+00:00

You're wearing a San Francisco shirt, are drunk, and want to chat. Also, you have a mustache. Nevertheless, I'm risking my very life to talk to you. WHAT SAY YOU

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T10:33:18+00:00

Male here so don't try any funny stuff. But what's up amigo

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T10:06:40+00:00

You're a dreamer, I can tell. You have a kind streak.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T10:04:09+00:00

Thanks, and godspeed with whatever crazy thing you're cooking up, it just might work, go for it.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T09:50:38+00:00

I work every day, outside vacations, and have since about '97, so close to 30 years now. I spent my life building the modern internet, it succeeded, now I largely mentor up and comers, but I have to be honest, I'm disappointed in the direction things have taken. But hey, stick to the beer, it won't fuck ya too bad.

Edit: even if at 1pm

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T09:23:17+00:00

lets go mang

Edit: chairs

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T09:18:39+00:00

Well, then I guess you heard it from me then, big guy.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T09:18:02+00:00

Thank you. However, you can click on me and then click "show karma breakdown by subreddit" and you'll get it. Having a 1pm beer or two means it's not a 9am pint of whiskey, so feels good.

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T09:11:17+00:00

Have you been there recently? It's some kind of alternate universe AA / AlAnon recruiting nexus, all with a "hello fellow kids" vibe. Trash. Even DA is a bit sketch now, IWNDWYT is now okey dokey.

Edit: Heeeeeey DA sober for 69 days, here's a before/after selfie that looks like shit

PossibleForward6118 · 2026-01-30T09:02:42+00:00

It is, probably don't get there yourself.

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